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Ive miscarried

Life officially sucks


Feel totally crap, 2nd miscarriage in 1 year

Dont want any judging for my previous threads, or "it happens" just need somewhere to vent.

:(:(:(
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  • mummybearx
    mummybearx Posts: 1,921 Forumite
    Oh sweetie :( Sending lots of love and (((hugs))) your way x
    Can't think of anything smart to put here...
  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    You can post on the miscarriage thread if you want the ladies on there are lovely, they really helped when it happened to me.there won't be any 'it happens' I can tell you that!
  • So sorry threemuttleys :(

    my heart goes out to you
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    so sorry to hear that, please take good care of yourself.

    as Claire says, the ladies on the miscarriage thread are wonderful for emotional support as well as practical advice/experience to share x x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    I can't say anything that will really help - but you vent away. Better to let the feelings out - it's bad enough when it happens once. Twice must be awful to deal with.
  • Meadows
    Meadows Posts: 4,530 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee! Hung up my suit! Xmas Saver!
    Sorry for you sad news, and hopefully you will and your partner will be able to get pregnant a little later.

    I miscarried three times prior to having our daughter, I looked at it as natures way of dealing with something that was not right.

    Everything has its beauty but not everyone sees it.
  • I honestly feel so alone. Oh has had to go to work for a court case. His mother keeps ringing, but I cant deal with anyone else crying or saying try again.

    I honestly dont think I can deal with this, I cant keep losing babies. I honestly thought we would be ok with this one. Full on morning sickness, exhaustion etc..and I still lost my Beanie Baby:(
  • xbrenx
    xbrenx Posts: 962 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts
    Sending you big hugs, so sorry for your loss.
  • So sorry for your loss:( sending big hug your way!!
  • So sorry hun, I rarely post but I have been where you are and I know how much it truly sucks. Hugs to you look after yourself x x x
    Happy Wife and Mother :-) DD is 7 bump is due in July and DH is 40.
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