Trying for a Baby Part 9

sweaty_betty

Hello all
Well I'm a bit fed up. I've had nausea for nearly two weeks now, had a bunged up nose and general early pregnancy symptoms. I've had this before and it came to nothing, but I had a little hope in the back of my mind that maybe it was something this time (even though I wasn't even sure if I'd ovulated), but I'm now on day 30 (last cycle was 32 days, but prior to loss was 28 days) and all tests are completely negative.

Argh! If I'm not pregnant, I don't appreciate feeling like crap for 2 weeks :mad:.

I'm considering a trip to my GP to see if they can find any reason for all these pointless symptoms. Do you think it would be a waste of time?

Sorry, I know some of you are having a much harder time of it than I am, it's just so frustrating.

lilmissmup

I am like that pretty much every two week wait....

How long you been trying hun?

sweaty_betty

lilmissmup wrote: »

I am like that pretty much every two week wait....

How long you been trying hun?

Ah not just me then . Nature is so cruel.

I've been trying a couple of months. I lost twins at 22w around 14 weeks ago, I had an early miscarriage before I became pregnant with them. I'm very lucky to have a 3 year old LO, just feels like my body is betraying me ATM.

As I said, I know other are having a much harder time of it, just wish life was straightforward...

codemonkey

Not feeling very good about things. On a range of medication which I don't think is compatible with ttc. I really need to speak to a doctor about this but have to wait for a CT scan to confirm a diagnosis of trigeminal neuralgia. There's someone on facebook who didn't mention her pregnancy til she was after 8 months and now doesn't shut up. She's been posting an array of bump photos and those horrible baby update things and going on about it. I just want to reply to them all with "Yeah, you're pregnant. WE KNOW!!! Shut up now!!!"

On the plus side, apparently the pain I've been experiencing is one of the most painful things known to mankind, so childbirth should be a breeze, if I ever get there.

Just all feels so unfair now. All I want is a lovely little family and instead I get a stupid painful medical condition which is only going to get worse the older I get.

I keep hoping it's just an infection or something.

Part_Mouse

Code I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better.your really going through the wars.it's not a lot but huge hugs to you none the less.

time2deal

codemonkey wrote: »

Just all feels so unfair now. All I want is a lovely little family and instead I get a stupid painful medical condition which is only going to get worse the older I get.

I keep hoping it's just an infection or something.

I hear ya.

Although I must say I'm feeling good today. Done a really long walk/run, and started day 1 of the couch to 5k. Running hurts!! But I'll try to stick to it as I worked out the calories, and it's so much more running than walking.

NHS IVF appointment on Wednesday, so I'm on operation 'drop a kilo by Wednesday', so that I can wear clothes when I'm being weighted and still be below 30 BMI! Do you think they will bat an eye if I start stripping off?

My acupunturist has subtly put me on anti-depressants. It's funny with Chinese medicine, you really don't know what they are giving you. But she gave me a specific tablet and just told me to take them twice a day. I've researched it and found it is for stress/anxiety and depression. I suppose I do need that, life isn't exactly a bed of roses at the moment, but I do think she should probably have mentioned to me what it does.

bigmomma051204

I don't think I am keen on these OPK thingies... lol.... Having read the blurb again (obsessive i know!) It says that the line should be exactly the same colour as the other line or DARKER. Well onThurs there was NO line at all... Fri there was a line but it was paler, yesterday there was a definite line and it was almost exactly the same but possibly the teeniest but paler .. today the line is there but pale again (as Friday) .... so what the Hell does all that mean?!?! I was cramping like a good 'un yesterday which i assume to be OV pain and still got those cramps today albeit a bit less painy.

So - Do i assume that the darkest line along with the crampy-ness yesterday (plus the fact that by rights i was "due" to OV yesterday according to calculations and fertility friend etc) means that my eyesight is obviously just poor and i should take the "almost the same colour" as a positive??

This may be a short lived affair with the OPKs :cool:

On the upside - I convinced poor, knackered, full of cold hubby to BD yesterday. So if i WAS ov yesterday, being as we BD on Weds, BD yesterday and will try again either tonight or tomorrow (just for a little added extra LOL) we can say we have tried lol!!

s0237276

Only my first month ttc but already starting to randomly attempt to pregnancy symptom spot, doesn't help that my husband is convinced that my nipples are changing, I've tried t explain to him it's probably from just coming off the pill, have a feeling the hardest part of ttc will be containing his excitement! AF is due on Wednesday and have decided not to test until Friday if needed, think the best way to get through ttc is not to get my hopes up every month and just enjoy life. Really good to see so many BFP on here though.

LoudFish

Hey mind if I join? My husband & I have recently started TTC & for the past 3 weeks I have felt nauseous 90% of the tme, had pains in my lower stomach & now my period is late. I've done tests & all have been neg but as I'm not 100% sure when my period is due (I've never paid much attention before but I think its usually around 25th/26th ) I'm not sure what to think. I just feel that I need to talk to someone in a similar situation as I think my husband is sick of hearing me talk about it lol. Good luck to everyone on here & I hope you all get what you wish for xx

bigmomma051204

Welcome to both of you

I am currently trying to work out how to seduce hubby tonight who is literally shattered from extreme working and BDing last night pmsl!

Poor bloke! He thought he did well last night for managing it....

Am even thinking along the stockings etc line for in a minute - will have to leg it upstairs and beat him up there so i can look all glam PMSL :rotfl: