Trying for a Baby Part 9

Birdie85

Just wondering...*IF* AF doesn't show up which test would be best to use in the morning? Although technically AF is late, I've only got a 10 day LP and tomorrow will be 12DPO so still early for testing. Should I try the Superdrug one? I hardly ever test nowadays so I'm really wary about doing it (hate BFNs!) but we're going to a party tomorrow night so I want to know if I can drink or not!

TeamLowe

feeling a bit left behind again
someone who was on this thread when i joined is now pregnant for the second time. don't get me wrong, i'm really really really happy for her, she deserves all the happiness in all the world.
it's just i thought i'd be pregnant with her the first time round. but i'm still here with no hope of a BFP left x

Birdie85

Awww big hugs TL Have you been reading the <12 weeks thread? Stay away! For sanity's sake I don't lurk on any of the pregnancy threads, even though it'd be nice to follow some of my favourite graduates, I just can't do it.

Things happen for a reason, they must do. Fate is waiting for the perfect time for you. Trust me, as soon as you invest all of your money and time into doing up a house that you've just bought and decided that you could really do *without* being knackered and fat whilst you're working on it you'll get PG. And your baby will be awesome and worth every second you've waited for it!

TeamLowe

...nooo, now why would i be doing something as silly as that?

I'm sure whenever my child decides to come to me I'll think it's the most perfect time and i'm happy that i've not put my life on hold in the meantime if you get me, i'm making strides in my career and NYC is eight weeks away

for now i guess they're having too much fun playing with the angels, as my gran used to say x

chocgirl_2

Congrats to TTC40! That is brilliant news and hope it gives everyone a tiny bit of hope!!

AFM Still a low on CBFM :-(. If I still don't get a high over the weekend then I'll be giving my bod a good talking to.

TeamLowe

oh good, and just as i'm getting upset about something online sillily, someone who announced their first pregnancy just after my loss has just posted a picture of their second baby's ultrasound.


chocolate for tea it is then x

dustystar02

congrats angelmommy and TTC40 wishing you both an easy, happy and healthy 9 months x

It's so hard to keep up with you all, I haven;t been on since tues and I've got 20+ pages to catch up on ha! I'll send big ((HUGS)) to those in need.

Can someone update me on the list CD3

I so thought It was going to happen for me this month too, I tested weds morning, bfn, then AF arrived later that day. Oh and she's giving me a horrendous time this month just to rub it in.
This is the first month I've felt really upset that it hasn't happened, and it's been 5 months of TTC now with the CBFm and it happened first month last time. I just don't get it?

Do you other ladies get that? It's like a physical pain I felt at the bfn, never had it before? Or am I just being dramatic?

teaandcakeordeath

Hugs Teamlowe. I reckon we should outlaw bragbook... it just makes all of us feel carp! Your time WILL come (but deffo have chocolate for tea tonight- you won't be able to get away with it when you have kids cos then they'll never eat cauliflower *eurgh*).

I dropped off OH SA this morning and saw a heavily pregnant woman outside antenatal clinic puffing her brains out. Felt like giving her a right dig. How come she gets one and chooses to poison it and I don't get one at all?!

Tried my relaxation CD last night- too many pan pipes for my liking. Reckon I'll just go back to hyper stress...

teaandcakeordeath

Birdie use a superdrug one... Fx that you can't drink tomorrow.

teaandcakeordeath

I get like that dusty. Been trying for 22 months now for #1 and not even a tttttttlp to give me an iota of hope that it'll ever happen. Every month I feel that like bit more like a total failure. What's worse is it's really affecting OH now. He was gutted when AF arrived this month. Never seen him like that unless someone has died!

Just gotta keep going though- if you've already had one then odds are you'll be fine! Just a pain in the butt waiting!