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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 12

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  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,825 Forumite
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    New_Day wrote: »
    I am having to be very disciplined right now. I have had a bit of a fall-out with my manager over my holiday entitlement.

    Luckily I have to pick my DD up later so can't have a drink yet. Hopefully by then the craving will pass.

    I once read that if you go 3 days without something then you are not addicted to it so determined to get that far at least.

    Hope everyone else is having a good evening.

    Good plan. It's also about setting new, good habits. It reminds me of visualisation techniques. We have to believe we can be AF. Not easy after years of regular drinking but we're proving it can be done.:)

    :Ton your 100 days (and the other one!).
  • MarkMan
    MarkMan Posts: 142 Forumite
    New Day. Glad you have come back:T. This is a place for letting things out and getting support. Since I've been here there has been nothing really judgemental.

    Just let it all out as many of us have probably had similar issues and all want to drink less (or staying drinking less/nothing).

    41 - don't beat yourself up. For whatever reason(s) you didn't go mad with the drinking and just as you cant change the bad things in the past, you can't change the good.

    Its a long journey so put it down as a "win" and remember it could have been a bad defeat:p.

    Take care all.:A
    Smoke-free since Jan 2012 :j Now its just the drink, and the weight, and life in general :p
  • Morning,

    AFD #3 for me yesterday, tonight will be my third in a row :)

    Slept a bit better last night and it was nice to wake up not feeling groggy or grouchy.

    Have a good day x
  • Lilith1980
    Lilith1980 Posts: 2,100 Forumite
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    Hi all, 16 AFDs for me please Shaggy :)

    Might have to go to the doctors if this cold thing carries on. I get better during the day and my chest clears a bit, but then feel wiped out again in the morning. Don't really have the time as need to get things sorted for Saturday. Am getting more and more excited!! :D

    Am not going to uni today, spending day at home trying to revise for an exam we have next week and taking it easy.

    Hope everyone has a good Wednesday :) x
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Morning :hello:

    2 more AFDs for me.

    Day off for me today for no reason in a particular :) Hoping to get a nice long walk in later....character-emoticon-0039.gif

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    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • macpep1
    macpep1 Posts: 1,749 Forumite
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    Morning All :hello:

    Shaggy - hope you are ok, have not saw you posting, can you please add another AF for me for tonight, thats 10AFD's :j yay into double figures. I am going to a WWII "Tea Dance" in DD's school this afternoon, looking forward to that, DD & her peers have been practising this for months, she is sooo excited. I won't get on tonight as I need to take up some hems on curtains for my aunt & try get some housework done :eek:
    Lilith - Wont be long until Saturday now, just a shame you are feeling so pants, perhaps a wee dose of AB's from doc is just what you need.
    :TGratitude is the best Attitude :T
    Long Term Flylady
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Imagnu wrote: »
    Give me a hand back up on the wagon please and a virtual kick up the backside too.
    No more AFD's to add, not going to make my April target :( grrr.

    Sending you a wagon---- CoveredWagonAnimated.gif Hop on now...:)
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • The_Boss
    The_Boss Posts: 5,863 Forumite
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    Going to declare 17 AFDs including today as will be having an injection late this afternoon that means I cannot drink even if I wanted to.

    Really into the swing of it now too. 4 weeks to go to beat my best so far this year :)
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 17 April 2013 at 11:10AM
    macpep1 wrote: »
    Shaggy - hope you are ok, have not saw you posting

    I'm great thanks macpep :j Just been real busy with work....

    So sad about the Boston Marathon...there is really no understanding things sometimes :(
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    April :-

    happy2.gif= 7 Days AF

    sheep_jumping_rope-158.png= 14 days AF

    confetti.gif= 21 days AF

    smiley_emoticons_saint.gif= 28 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifyay-smiley-1.gif= 31 days AF

    woohoo-dancing-banana-smiley-emoticon.gif = target achieved



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    Barny1979
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    CuppaTea
    10/24
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    Gien 2/TF

    Idris /14

    If At First /23

    Imagnu 4/22
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    Mackeroo 3
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    Macpep 10/23 happy2.gif

    Maman 6/10

    Mari 4/TF

    MrsDee /14

    New Day 2/TF

    PurpleMumof2 3/10
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    Shaggy 15/17 happy2.gifsheep_jumping_rope-158.png

    Spongy 6/19

    Sophietb /14

    StupotStu 3/14
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    Tracy
    6/11

    Unself
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    Everyone Welcome!

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've got your AFDs wrong!!!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
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