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Bets time to have a baby with respect to schooling

Hi all, just wondering, what is the best time to have a baby with having the best outcome for the child academically? So, the child is not too young or too old for his class/ peers? Thanks
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  • DannyBo
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    noss wrote: »
    Hi all, just wondering, what is the best time to have a baby with having the best outcome for the child academically? So, the child is not too young or too old for his class/ peers? Thanks

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  • balletshoes
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    if this is a serious question, you're going to get a lot of generalisations ;). It also depends where you live, as the intake year is different depending on which country you intend bringing your child up in.

    I honestly don't think it matters in which month your child is born.
  • There is a book called Bounce which says that the oldest children in an class are generally more successful. So a child with a September birthday MAY achieve better academic results - they will turn 5 almost as soon as they start reception class at school.

    However...can you really control these things? What if the child is premature? Or born with special needs?
  • j.e.j.
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    It makes very little difference, long-term. I'd say think more about whether you want to be carrying through the summer or the winter :D Mum swore her winter pregnancies were easier as it wasn't so hot and uncomfortable, lol.
  • balletshoes
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    j.e.j. wrote: »
    It makes very little difference, long-term.
    I'd say think more about whether you want to be carrying through the summer or the winter :D Mum swore her winter pregnancies were easier as it wasn't so hot and uncomfortable, lol.

    very good point - i was pregnant from July to April, and that was just about perfect, no mega-hot weather to contend with with a big bump!
  • Courgette
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    It's not necessarily that easy to conceive or carry a child to term you know!
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  • I'd say Feb/March time too. The only drawback at that time of year is the weather.
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  • 3v3
    3v3 Posts: 1,444 Forumite
    noss wrote: »
    Hi all, just wondering, what is the best time to have a baby with having the best outcome for the child academically? So, the child is not too young or too old for his class/ peers? Thanks

    If you are serious ....

    ... I believe there are far more important criteria to consider before conception - even from an academic ability point of view, genetics do have a little role to play ;)
  • DannyBo wrote: »
    March !!!!!

    In Scotland, the child would be the eldest in the class! ;)

    Cut-off date for academic year depends on where you live. It's not worth trying to plan for it as you may move in the future.
  • hayday75
    hayday75 Posts: 1,133 Forumite
    edited 31 December 2012 at 9:24PM
    Jeez i can't believe this is an honest question ? ...
    My first worry would be giving birth
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