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Why won't neighbours hubby leave? (Long story)

HappyG1rl
HappyG1rl Posts: 242 Forumite
Duplicated post - apologies.
I'll never be a Money Saving Expert while my kids are Mony Spending Experts.

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  • Hasn't this already been posted? I'm sure I recall posting in a thread that was nigh-on identical to this a couple of weeks back.
  • Emmzi
    Emmzi Posts: 8,658 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Debt free 4th April 2007.
    New house. Bigger mortgage. MFWB after I have my buffer cash in place.
  • coolio_2
    coolio_2 Posts: 1,408 Forumite
    Toots wrote: »
    It is also with an older woman who is white (they are both black).

    White? Typical homewrecker type unfortunately
  • coolio_2
    coolio_2 Posts: 1,408 Forumite
    She just needs to be ruthless. If she behaves like a pushover, she'll be treated (wrongly) as one.
  • mr218
    mr218 Posts: 247 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    surely any person would ask why do you want your older colleague to look after our children again and again. when you behave like a doormat you are treated as one. i have sympathy for your neighbour but surely she should have realised that something was up much earlier. maybe she did not want to face upto it.

    in the end there is not much you can do. she needs to be strong enough to fight for her rights. good luck to her
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