Positive Steps Challenge 2013

his_missus

Sorry to hear that charley bear but hopefully you'll look back on the break up and realise it was for the best, even if it doesn't feel that way now.

A new style is always good, maybe be brave and treat yourself to a new hairdo or colour and a new make-up style.

Hugs xxx

House flea-sprayed and the bloomin' cats still have fleas. I may have to resort to shaving them, the cats that is not the fleas:rotfl:

No great plans for tonight. Spending afternoon with my bessie, crafting. I do need to look at whether switching my gas & leccy would be financially beneficial and could do with sorting my xmas budgets out, only 2 paydays to xmas and I want to do most of the spending with my November wage.

charleybear

Just sorted out the christmas presents. I kept some back for him, incase things change and we're civil. If he doesn't them then I'll sell them.

suzitiger

fairyclicks wrote: »

Wow happy Birthday Suzi xxxxx you kept that quiet you naughty girl lol!

Oh re the freebies for nice post i have started ordering that stuff again added to freebies section of my bloggy blog

Thank you, yes I know, I was too busy celebrating haha :beer:
Can you put up different sections to a blog then? I have no idea what I'm doing!

MinnieMousesMummy wrote: »

Good morning, I am managing to almost stay on top of everything so far this week so I am hoping for a productive week.

Rollies
Finish knitting the body of the soft toy
Package up ebay sales
Do some work on Nectar adpoints

Small steps for Tuesday
Attend college
Write 3500 words for client
Sort through some of the emails
Update income spreadsheet & challenge
Do work on swagbucks
Do some work on Nectar adpoints
Check postcode lottery & birthday bingo
Spend an hour looking for freelance work
Go to local knitting group
Collect the kids from school and childminder
Sort meal plan for November and make shopping lists

Busy list for you MMM I hope it all goes well

charleybear wrote: »

Having a little bit of a chill week though
my tasks today is to:

- Put clean washing away
- Do college research task
- Sort out christmas presents
- Sort out my (now ex) partner's christmas presents (£85+ worth! )

Sorry to hear this too CharleyBear, keep busy. lots of love xxx

fairyclicks

suzitiger wrote: »

Thank you, yes I know, I was too busy celebrating haha :beer:
Can you put up different sections to a blog then? I have no idea what I'm doing!

Just right too

You can do all sorts with a blog my main one is linked to my profile on here - if you have a look at that it will show you a few different options for sectioning - i'm in the process of changing things around a bit but it will give you an idea of what you can do! Any questions you know where i am

PS am i allowed to read yours yet? xx

suzitiger

fairyclicks wrote: »

You can do all sorts with a blog

PS am i allowed to read yours yet? xx

Oh if I had actually got round to starting one I would let you!
But still haven't. I will soon

charleybear

just put a lot of the stuff my ex brought me in a box to sell.
I just rang him and after all the times i was there for him he said i hurt him.
so its over for good. he never loved me for the 3 years and just strung me along, making me spend money on crap for him "just for a joke".

He's such a hurtful person.
I just can't believe how much he's hurt me.

Won't be doing too much today i had a nice day planned with family.
kinda ruined it now though

Buffythedebtslayer

What a horrible man Charley bear. Absolutely vile little creep.

you are at the point of feeling crap obviously but you are clearly better off free of him. Just be kind to yourself ok? XX

ps - re fleas, I found putting salt down in the corners and edges helped as well as the flea spray proper. plus massive hoovering offensive as you say

fairyclicks

charleybear wrote: »

just put a lot of the stuff my ex brought me in a box to sell.
I just rang him and after all the times i was there for him he said i hurt him.
so its over for good. he never loved me for the 3 years and just strung me along, making me spend money on crap for him "just for a joke".

He's such a hurtful person.
I just can't believe how much he's hurt me.

Won't be doing too much today i had a nice day planned with family.
kinda ruined it now though

Such a horrible thing for him to say charleybear, i'm sure he didn't mean it and is just hitting out at you but its still horrible. Spending some time with your family is probably a good plan - try not to let his words get in the way of that - big hugs to you xxxx

charleybear

Will do thanks.. I can already feel my life going up at the minute.
I know its silly, but i will soon be taking the 101 things to do in 1001 days once my list is finished - I'm on number 89 so it won't be too long now.
I just thought it would give me different goals to acheive that would make my life better, healthier, happier and content.

I wonder if i can make a blog about me doing the project and completeing it then posting the link here would be okay?


When i get home from the cinemas:
- Tidy up my room properly
- Bake halloween ginger bread biscuits and decorate them
- Have fun with my mum and sister
- Get the final 12 goals on my 101 list

fairyclicks

charleybear wrote: »

Will do thanks.. I can already feel my life going up at the minute.
I know its silly, but i will soon be taking the 101 things to do in 1001 days once my list is finished - I'm on number 89 so it won't be too long now.
I just thought it would give me different goals to acheive that would make my life better, healthier, happier and content.

I wonder if i can make a blog about me doing the project and completeing it then posting the link here would be okay?


When i get home from the cinemas:
- Tidy up my room properly
- Bake halloween ginger bread biscuits and decorate them
- Have fun with my mum and sister
- Get the final 12 goals on my 101 list

Ooooh that sounds fab i would def read that!! unfortunately you aren't allowed to post blog links on MSE but you can add the link to your profile and let us know when its there xxx

I'm glad you feel life is on the up - sometimes the best thing we can do is end a relationship thats not meeting our needs/goals/expectations