Positive Steps Challenge 2013

charleybear

It was though then he just turned nasty all of the sudden.
I had fun at the cinema with my sister, nan and 2 cousins then we got treated to kfc from my nan. Now I just baked the ginger bread halloween buiscuits, smells nice!!
Haven't done much of the tasks. My aunt came over to pick my cousins up but stayed a little longer then expected. Was nice to talk to my auntie , haven't talked to her much properly before.

MinnieMousesMummy

Good evening, I am just trying to catch up with my posts not sure where the last 48 hours has disappeared to.

Rollies
Finish knitting the body of the soft toy:)
Package up ebay sales:)
Spend an hour looking for freelance work
Sort meal plan for November and make shopping lists

Small steps for Wednesday
Attend college:)
Sort through 50 emails
Write 2500 words for client
Post ebay sales:)
Sort tester paperwork and schedule
Swagbucks
Check postcode lottery & birthday bingo
Nectar adpoints (30 points)
Update income sheet & challenge
Sort through lab paperwork
Make shopping list and do small online shop (organising kids party for tomorrow)

charleybear

My blog link is on my homepage!
I haven't posted much as I only started the challenge yesterday.

Today steps:
Sort out who can be given the presents i did buy for my ex's cousin - Done
Sort out what I can take back or try to - done
-Tidy room a little bit
-get ready for work
-Enjoy work
-Go to my auntie and uncles for halloween
-Come back to my house
-Just have an epic day of scaring

MinnieMousesMummy

Good morning everyone, Today is going to be a busy day for me, as I have a lot to get done.

Rollies
Spend an hour looking for freelance work
Sort meal plan for November and make shopping lists
Sort tester paperwork and schedule
Nectar adpoints (30 points)
Sort through lab paperwork

Small steps for Thursday:
Take little ones to local toddler group:)
Sort through emails:)
Write 2500 words for client - Work in Progress
Swagbucks:)
Check postcode lottery & birthday bingo:)
Update income sheet & challenge:)
Check Mr A order - scan and store:)
Store party food for tonight, having a party for the kids:)
Sort through dd's wardrobe & remove clothes that are too small
Trip to the shop, as need to get new batteries for the camera:)
Take pictures for ebay
List 5 items on ebay
Write report due in tomorrow
Spend 30 minutes working on ironing mountain:)
Do course work that is planned for today
Do 3 loads of washing:)
Check airer and move dried items to the mountain:)
School runs:)

MinnieMousesMummy

Good morning, Not had a good start to the day as had a one hour diversion on my way to college due to a road closure.

Rollies
Spend an hour looking for freelance work
Sort meal plan for November and make shopping lists
Sort tester paperwork and schedule
Nectar adpoints (30 points)
Sort through lab paperwork
Sort through dd's wardrobe & remove clothes that are too small
Take pictures for ebay
List 5 items on ebay
Write report due in Friday
Do some course work

Small steps for Friday
Collect little ones from childminder:)
Collect ds from school:)
2 hours paid work:)
Collect dm, as she is staying with us tonight due to babysitting tomorrow night:)
Attend college:)
Check postcode lottery & birthday bingo:)
Swagbucks:)
Print paperwork and finalise accounts for October

I think that is everything that I need to get done today, Hugs to everyone that wants/needs them x

charleybear

Argh I'm a little mad,
my ex just added me on facebook
after he said he wants to forget about me?
I accepted but I'm not sure why he did that.
oh well maybe he's calming down.

My steps for today is:

- Tidy desk done
- Sort out paper pile - DOING
- Tidy floor - DOING
- Sort christmas presents out (so i know everyone is sorted and who i've got to buy presents for)
- Order 2 christmas presents off the web
- Read through coursework

his_missus

Hey Charley! I read your blog yesterday and you can cross off no.2 as I'm inspired to try 101 things in 1001 days. If I start today I have until 28th July 2016 but only got 22 things on my list so far.

As for the ex adding you on fb, I don't want to sound cynical but maybe it's just his way of keeping tabs on you or maybe he just wants to let you know how great his life is and rub your nose in it. Take care, don't let him hurt you anymore and don't allow him to see how hurt you are. You can prevent people from seeing your posts, I do it all the time with those "friends" I can't unfriend for fear of causing a drama but don't want to see my status posts

My tasks for the weekend are:
- visit dad
- hairdressers (I look like I'm auditioning for the bootleg beatles!)
- mahoosive cooking session to fill the freezer
- make 3 birthday cards
- finish the 2 xmas cards I made at bessie's on Tues
- the usual houseworky stuff.

charleybear

I just unfriended him I tried to fight for him back but then he clearly stated he doesn't want to get back with me and he only added me as a friend to sort things out but we never do he always starts an argument so he's out of my life forever. I'm really hurting now, I have actual pains in my chest. He was constantly blaming me for his mistakes and still is now.

I managed to tidy my room looking better, still a little bit to go until its properly done.

But today I deleted my ex off of facebook & his family,
I've deleted his number off my phone and I'm going to
delete anything with him off my facebook.

the other day I changed my pin number for my bank as he knew it,
i changed my password to facebook cos he knew it.

I just want this stress to stop now.
I want to look forward and not behind me.
God I feel awful


oohh and I have more goals then 101 things 1001 days so i think it's
turning out to be "how much can i achieve in 1001 days" lol

charleybear

I made a new challenge -
It's called "1001 days Achievement Challenge"

fairyclicks

Hi Charleybear - i love your blog and am inspired too

re the fb thing - have to say i agree with not having him on there....at least while things are so raw. I have several ex's on my fb now but we are not all hurt and emotional etc (not now anyway!)

Be careful about destroying or deleting everything - don't do it out of anger as you might wish you hadn't - 3 yrs is a long time to be with someone esp at your age xxx