my old girl is gone

iounowt

dont know why im posting but it just feels like i need to let it out,lost my beautiful 17yr old dog on thursday ,still cant believe she is gone. im struggling to cope,it was very sudden from wed night to thurday afternoon i had to take her to vets to say goodbye ,the pain is so immense she was my world ,got her as a rescue 9yrs ago my constant shadow is now gone ,cant stop crying .everywhere i turn im reminded shes not with me,will the pain ever ease,i feel like im living in a void .goodbye my wee girl i will miss you every day for the rest of my life,i am so angry with the world right now:(:mad:

sazzybum

I'm so sorry iounowt. Take your own time to grieve, and don't let anyone tell you it was 'just a dog'. You've lost a member of your family.

Give yourself all the time you need.

Saz

fannyadams

{{{{{iounowt}}}}}I couldn't read and run
We feel your pain - we lost our last one 8 years ago on valentines day...
I want to tell you that the pain will get better
I want to tell you that your heart will heal
let it all out
she had a great life with you and you did the right thing cuz that's what best friends do... they care.

geri1965_2

Really sorry for your loss. I promise you it will get easier, and you will be able to look back on all the good times with fondness.

zaksmum

So sorry OP. Many of us on here know only too well how gutted you will be feeling right now.

Sending you all good wishes.

walwin

I'm so sorry you've lost your precious girl.

Thinking of you and knowing how much you're hurting xx

harrys_nan

Sending you some (((hugs)))
She is at peace now, love your memories and be happy you gave her a very good life.

youngie

thinking of you try to think about what a wonderful life she had with you and remember she wouldn't want you to be angry sad or upset take care

meames_2

So sorry xxxxx

XYZ1000

Hello

Sorry to hear of you loss. My cat died on fri eve so understand how you are feeling. I have taken a days hoilday today off work as just been worn out with tears. Must admit it has gotten abit easier today, fri and sat was really terrible. I was beside myself. I think when it comes out of the blue, you have no time to prepare yourself so it is very painfull. Also they are there at home with you, it seems so strange that they are not there when you get up in the morning, or pestering me for food! No one here when I was on my own at home today. It is going to take alot of getting use to losing the member of the family who has been such a big part of our lives.
A couple of people have asked me about am I getting another pet and talking about it ect. Has really made me mad. I know they are not the same but I wouldn't go to someone who just lost their husband "are you going to get another husband now?" Just wrong.
Hopefully your little girl and my Matey have met up some place and are taking care of each other. Hope it gets easier for you soon.

bugslet

You must have given her so much love and care for her to make that great doggy age. Dogs are so much part of our family, that it's bound to hurt.

Big hug
bugslet x