O/S Daily Thead 3rdNov

uolypool

Thank you all for kind words regarding my sons predicament at uni. Well it has reached a head and he broke down in tears after she laid into him verbally and then plastered it all over her facebook page. He booked a train ticket to come home tonight, am so sad for him, all I want to do at this moment in time is 1) pick up the pieces and support him as I obviously will and 1) smash her face in and see how she likes being bullied and humiliated infront of people. Obviously I wont be doing the latter but boy do I wish I could. Ds3 will collect him from the train station at 1 am , so the next few weeks are going to be devoted to getting him back on his feet , why are some people so bl00dy nasty?

meanmarie

Evening all,
Quick visit as using tablet and typing is so slow.
Very cold here but dry and sunny today.
Steak and mushrooms for dinner today, tasty.
Hugs to all, enjoy your weekend and stay safe.

Marie

redruby

uolypool wrote: »

Thank you all for kind words regarding my sons predicament at uni. Well it has reached a head and he broke down in tears after she laid into him verbally and then plastered it all over her facebook page. He booked a train ticket to come home tonight, am so sad for him, all I want to do at this moment in time is 1) pick up the pieces and support him as I obviously will and 1) smash her face in and see how she likes being bullied and humiliated infront of people. Obviously I wont be doing the latter but boy do I wish I could. Ds3 will collect him from the train station at 1 am , so the next few weeks are going to be devoted to getting him back on his feet , why are some people so bl00dy nasty?

Oh poor lad I do feel for him, is there anyone at uni that you or he could talk to ? also if possible take a screen shot of her FB if you can, big hugs to him xx

miffy257

Uolypool big hugs for your poor DS. He really will need his family
now, hope he is ok. When he's feeling stronger perhaps he could talk to someone at the Uni. The girl sounds so nasty, just hope what goes around comes around to her. Hope he is able to carry on with his course.

Butterfly_Brain

Uolypool I really hate bullies and I would be inclined to go and sort her out, little B**** I hope that DS recovers from this nasty ordeal soon, please don't let him throw his Uni place because if he does the B**** has won. Is there any one that he can go to or any possibility of him finding other digs? I am sending him lots of (((Hugs)))

TTFTM Thank you for your kind words. The one consolation is that all memories of this lovely lady are good ones and I have never heard a bad word said of her.

donny-gal

uolypool wrote: »

Thank you all for kind words regarding my sons predicament at uni. Well it has reached a head and he broke down in tears after she laid into him verbally and then plastered it all over her facebook page. He booked a train ticket to come home tonight, am so sad for him, all I want to do at this moment in time is 1) pick up the pieces and support him as I obviously will and 1) smash her face in and see how she likes being bullied and humiliated infront of people. Obviously I wont be doing the latter but boy do I wish I could. Ds3 will collect him from the train station at 1 am , so the next few weeks are going to be devoted to getting him back on his feet , why are some people so bl00dy nasty?

Uolypool. Have you ascertained the reason for the attacks?
Has he snubbed her advances?
Is he untidy around the house and she wants it tidy?
Has she a friend she wants to take over the tenancy?
Or are they just two where sparks fly?

You need a copy of the FB page for him to show to Uni.

He must NOT give up his UNI place over this. Just moving out is not easy as he will have signed a years rent to be paid regardless.

((Hugs)). DG

System

Evening all,

too tired to post really but i wanted to catch up on your news.

I'll catch up with you tomorrow (hopefully).

Sleep well all.

uolypool

donny-gal wrote: »

Uolypool. Have you ascertained the reason for the attacks?
Has he snubbed her advances?
Is he untidy around the house and she wants it tidy?
Has she a friend she wants to take over the tenancy?
Or are they just two where sparks fly?

You need a copy of the FB page for him to show to Uni.

He must NOT give up his UNI place over this. Just moving out is not easy as he will have signed a years rent to be paid regardless.

((Hugs)). DG

Donny-gal, you wouldnt believe me if I told you.
Here goes. He is English, she is Welsh and its a Uni in wales, He is a very tidy lad so def not that and he had befriended a lad that lives in the house as well who has not long come out as being gay. Oh and this lad happens to be English as well. Unlike me my son will keep quiet and just take the c rap thrown at him , he bottles it up and then it just explodes. He has discussed the possibility of moving into different digs but his landlords have said that even if he does then he will still need to continue with the rent. It is all paid up until end of Feb so he has a bit of breathing space there.He spoke to Uni welfare officer yesterday and they have said that the Uni will help him to relocate to a uni closer to home and then he can defer till Sept 2013 . He was a wreck when he phoned me and I could hear her and one of the other house 'mates' calling him a homo and stuff like that.He just wanted to get out of there asap. After a few days of licking his wounds and being back in his home we can begin to try and sort this mess out. His dad has said he will go and collect his belongings for him, whoo betide them if they say anything in front of him. I have got copies of the stuff on fb saved onto my laptop , they even started having a go at my dd on it calling her a f*ck ing english s ket who is riddled with aids:mad::eek::mad:.

Will let you all know how he is tomorrow. Thanks to all for being so supportive.