Neighbour constantly slamming cupboards.

foxymum1977_2

i really hope you get this sorted for you and your childrens sanity, good luck x

nettles77

Thank you very much. Yes local councillor is involved too. He lives beside us and comes to listen when she starts and has made a report for court too. All the government offices are involved and treating it very serious. I want it sorted before Christmas eve as I want my children to enjoy it like every other child and not be stressed out like every other night lately.

nettles77

We live in a very quiet place and there's only 5 houses here the rest of us neighbours are like family, so I know none of them did it.
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Welshwoofs

If the police and all the government offices are involved, what other help is it you're asking for? It all appears to be in control and I can't imagine that anyone here could suggest anything over and above what the police are doing.

Fire_Fox

nettles77 wrote: »

Thank you very much. Yes local councillor is involved too. He lives beside us and comes to listen when she starts and has made a report for court too. All the government offices are involved and treating it very serious. I want it sorted before Christmas eve as I want my children to enjoy it like every other child and not be stressed out like every other night lately.

That is helpful. :T

londonsurrey

Noise, and more pertinently, the aggression behind it, can be very stressful.

One of my neighbours is a bit of a care in the community case. Unfortunately, no one has ever told him that. He's now 51, never left home, and his mother died earlier this year. Life has just taken a downturn for the worse for him. He has a good IQ, but emotionally, he can sometimes be about 10.

Anyhow, he has decided, after ten years of living next to me and my husband, (we were really friendly with them, helped him sometimes, etc) that after my husband died, that we've been too noisy, and now that I'm a widow on my own, he's going to try to boss me about.

Every now and then, he goes into one, and starts slamming doors, repeatedly. He does some other not very nice things too, that I won't go into here.

Every time this happens, I just remark to myself, or to any visitors, "I see that he hasn't managed to sort out a sex life yet, poor soul". It's helped me enormously, rather than feeling victimised.

So while the legal bits work themselves out for you, I was wondering if you could get your children to look at the neighbour as "Oh dear, poor (neighbour) hasn't managed to sort herself out yet, and has no friends to talk to, isn't it sad? Let's think about the good friends we have and the nice experiences we have with them, and hope that she manages to do that for herself one day".

mumblub

To welshwolf how was your post helpful..the op is just asking for more help/advice...to nettles housing rights num is 02890 2045640 they are on fb also the more people you have on your case about this "nice person" the better..again nettles hope she dosent torture you tonight love my thoughts are with you.

sulkisu

TBH it sounds like a soundproofing issue to me. I haven't read the whole thread - sorry - but if you are being disturbed by cupboard doors slamming, no matter how hard she slams them, the walls must be too thin.

Norman_Castle

I haven't read the whole thread - sorry

To save you the effort of reading, post #5 said

Lived here 13 years beside each other and she never did it until she got reported for party.

sulkisu

Norman_Castle wrote: »

To save you the effort of reading, post #5 said

Thanks. I still think it's a sound proofing issue. Regardless of her neighbours motives for doing so, she should be able to bang her cupboard doors without it causing a nuisance.