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Jimmy Savile items

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  • I always find it in bad taste when people make jokes out of other people's misfortunes & tragedies. There is one particular man who works in the same building as me & you can guarantee that within days of any tragedy, whether worldwide or in the UK, he will have some sort of joke about it.

    Each to their own I guess.
  • Crowqueen
    Crowqueen Posts: 5,726 Forumite
    edited 25 October 2012 at 4:22PM
    Humor has always been used as a coping mechanism. Personally I found it funny as well. Humans need to laugh in the face of adversity so to speak, its what keeps us going. Its why no matter what tragedy befalls us we can still laugh.

    Personally I have quite a sick sense of humor, it doesn't mean I have any less sympathy for people, just that I find it easier personally to laugh than to be depressed or outraged over something.
    I composed a far wittier reply to that initial post, but thought it wasn't quite the right place to share a few jokes I've heard.

    I wouldn't buy that shirt, certainly. The whole thing - turning into a witch-hunt - is just sad. That said, the tasteless jokes usually centre around the perpetrator; when the victims are being made fun of, that is a different story, which is why the shirt makes me wince at the same time as it makes me laugh. People have a right not to be offended and to be treated with respect, too. I made a few off-colour jokes at the Paralympics then realised what I'd said was a bit offensive and toned down the impish humour somewhat. Then you watch something like 'The Last Leg', C4's Paralympics review show, and find there are things you can laugh at - or laugh with. There is a fine line sometimes between being humorous and being disrespectful. I hate disrespect for mental health issues so shouldn't really have told the jokes I did.

    Certainly, my mother's bragging rights to being interviewed by him while in hospital with me as a newborn have taken on a different tinge. And I really enjoyed Jim'll Fix It as a child - wasn't exactly something that I would say was dreadfully important, but I do feel a little part of me has died with this.
    "Well, it's election year, Bill, we'd rather people didn't exercise common sense..." - Jed Bartlet, The West Wing, season 4

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  • RFW
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    I thought I was going to defend that t-shirt and then I looked at it, it's quite reprehensible. I could imagine a few tshirts that would be possibly amusing, that isn't one of them.

    There was an article a few days ago that Ebay should ban selling Savile memorabilia and costumes. It would be difficult to police that as you could end up stopping selling plastic cigars, shell suits and blonde wigs.
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  • Errata
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    Humor has always been used as a coping mechanism. Personally I found it funny as well. Humans need to laugh in the face of adversity so to speak, its what keeps us going. Its why no matter what tragedy befalls us we can still laugh.

    Personally I have quite a sick sense of humor, it doesn't mean I have any less sympathy for people, just that I find it easier personally to laugh than to be depressed or outraged over something.
    I don't disagree with you. Humour costs the giver and recipient nothing. Making money out of flogging macabre JS memorabilia to the highest bidder is a disgusting slap in the face to all those he abused.
    .................:)....I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
  • hearts
    hearts Posts: 1,191 Forumite
    Considering it's never yet been put forward as an excuse by "Saville" post or pre death, I don't see the connection. So the "joke" isn't.
  • bylromarha
    bylromarha Posts: 10,085 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    18 people have spent £11 on it...
    Who made hogs and dogs and frogs?
  • Neillgb
    Neillgb Posts: 574 Forumite
    bylromarha wrote: »
    18 people have spent £11 on it...

    Yep, seller has similar items for sale too. Other sellers have similar items.

    Put simply I consider these items to be offensive and, as such, not in accordance with EBAY listing policy. Reports have been made to EBAY but no response to date.

    I have also contacted numerous newspapers this morning. Will advise of any response.
  • Neillgb
    Neillgb Posts: 574 Forumite
    Errata wrote: »
    I don't disagree with you. Humour costs the giver and recipient nothing. Making money out of flogging macabre JS memorabilia to the highest bidder is a disgusting slap in the face to all those he abused.

    Yes, sums it up for me.
  • halibut2209
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  • Kingsd316
    Kingsd316 Posts: 1,394 Forumite
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    Umm i hate to tell people but i purchased the same slogan t-shirt (not from this seller) as well as the officially Jimmy Saville costume for an event last December (before all of this story broke) therefore these T-Shirts have been going for ages, maybe this person can not afford to just write off his stock!

    Also the official costume is still being sold by quite a few big name fancy dress shops on the net, why are people not up in arms about this?
    :beer:
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