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What happened in between 'fired myself up' and 'but have now lost it' ?Official DFW Nerd No 096 - Proud to have dealt with my debt!0
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nothing, its just me thinking about ten years i've chucked away on him,
he has no respect for me,
he cant even bring himself to call me,
think i'm just feeling sorry for myself,
sorry"Don't go where the path may lead,go where there is no path and leave a trail"Anthony Robbins0 -
Don't be sorry. 10 years is a big investment, you are bound to be sad if it isn't working out as you hoped.
Question is, what do you want to do about it?Official DFW Nerd No 096 - Proud to have dealt with my debt!0 -
i really dont know,
i think part of me wants him to sod off and stay there,
another part of me wants to scream for him to come back,
i think its just because he has been such a big part of me for so long,
need to shake the bad habit,
thank you so much you you really are a rock."Don't go where the path may lead,go where there is no path and leave a trail"Anthony Robbins0 -
A couple more questions then.
What are the ties that bind you?
What do you think he thinks about your relationship?Official DFW Nerd No 096 - Proud to have dealt with my debt!0 -
there are no ties as such, we have no kids together,
the money from the sale of my house went into his(where we live)
i think he thinks he loves me but just wants a mum."Don't go where the path may lead,go where there is no path and leave a trail"Anthony Robbins0 -
just to add i know it will take time and i will get stronger each day,
i have been through far worse than this."Don't go where the path may lead,go where there is no path and leave a trail"Anthony Robbins0 -
Would he agree to go with you to relationship counselling?Official DFW Nerd No 096 - Proud to have dealt with my debt!0
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that would be a big fat no."Don't go where the path may lead,go where there is no path and leave a trail"Anthony Robbins0
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Would you go on your own then?Official DFW Nerd No 096 - Proud to have dealt with my debt!0
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