What right does someone have...

sharnad

It's sickening when your bigger you get should you be eating that comments and when you lose it you get told you don't want to lose too much weight. It's best to tell them to !!!!!! off

ali-t

thistledome wrote: »

And you sound a bit like a girl I used to work with who was constantly moaning about looking fat and being on a diet and telling everybody whether or not she'd been "good" today or not, etc etc yawn yawn, yet if anybody tried to be helpful when they saw her scarfing down a cake 5 minutes after a large lunch, she'd bite their head off.

I agree with this, maybe if you are refering to being on a diet/exercise programme and are quite vocal about it they feel they have the right to comment since they have to listen to you all the time about your diet OP.

This is coming from the woman that has just scoffed a bag of tablet and a McD's (made it large!) lol

maman

heartbreak_star wrote: »

I do think it's always going to be an argument between those who sit in their ivory towers denouncing the "fatties" and those of us who are either a) fat and happy or b) fat and trying to get fitter like me.

I know there is a possibility that my colleagues genuinely think they are helping my fitness regime (though some just like being a pain) and I will have a gentle word with them. Any snarky comebacks will be met with "well I hope you never struggle with anything because I'll be just as helpful to you as you are to me". I think some will understand though.

HBS x

If that's how you feel, just be honest with your colleagues say 'Don't worry, I'm happy to be fat, I'm only concentrating on fitness'.