Is my sisters husband up to no good?

[Deleted User]

My sister is having doubts about her husband although she won't hear anything said about him. She confided that he is secretive with his computer and his phone. He even takes his phone with him if he gets up for the toilet in the night. I think he's up to something but don't know what to do for the best.

liney

Be ready to lend a shoulder or a sympathetic ear, but don't interfer!

Jojo_the_Tightfisted

Glassannie wrote: »

My sister is having doubts about her husband although she won't hear anything said about him. She confided that he is secretive with his computer and his phone. He even takes his phone with him if he gets up for the toilet in the night. I think he's up to something but don't know what to do for the best.

Keep out of it.


But be there for her if it all goes wrong.

[Deleted User]

I've no intention of interfering I was just looking for opinions on what might be behind his behaviour?

liney

Glassannie wrote: »

I've no intention of interfering I was just looking for opinions on what might be behind his behaviour?

He might be having an affair, he might be looking at 'interesting' internet sites that he doesn't want her to see...... or he might be suffering with some sort of OCD? Any other odd routines?

FunWithFlags

I don't think those are necessarily signs he's up to anything. I absolutely hate people faffing on my computer or looking over my shoulder when I'm on it (even my partner) and always take my phone into the toilet with me (in case I get stuck with a nice surprise poo and need reading material) and I'm certainly not up to anything! Maybe you are both reading too much into this.

Fire_Fox

Who knows? We can't give opinions based on two lines, only wild guesses.

[Deleted User]

I'm probably worrying over nothing I'm just protective of my kid sister

Own_My_Own

Maybe they are in deep debt and he has secretly joined MSE and done a SoA.

They are lots of secret Debt Wannabe Diaries on here.

Who knows ?

Errata

Gambling habit? Checking out Gaydar? Joined Match.com?
Could be anything, but if it walks like a duck and talks like a duck it's unlikely to be a giraffe.

halibut2209

FunWithFlags wrote: »

I don't think those are necessarily signs he's up to anything. I absolutely hate people faffing on my computer or looking over my shoulder when I'm on it (even my partner) and always take my phone into the toilet with me (in case I get stuck with a nice surprise poo and need reading material) and I'm certainly not up to anything! Maybe you are both reading too much into this.

This, this, and this. My phone is a godsend for all fecal-related activities

And FWF, you have one of the best usernames I've seen!