Affairs

calleyw

Someone I know has been having an affair with her neighbour he promised loads of stuff and moved out.

Now he has ended it claiming via text (what a man) because she got !!!!y this only happened when he messed her about.

She feels bad and wants to let his partner now why he moved out and how he treated both of them badly.

She will do it anon of course.

I don't think it is good idea. But she thinks it is.

Yours

Calley

0^0

Takes 2 to tango.

harrys_nan

So she has been having an affair with a guy that is in a relationship, which she knew about and now because he has dumped her she wants to spill the beans. Am I reading that correct?
Was she in a relationship as well?
she sounds a charming woman.
Why does she want to hurt the innocent party?

FATBALLZ

If she's going to name and shame him then she should live by her own standards and let the neighbour know who she is as well, not hide her own identity.

Fire_Fox

Why hurt the wife so cruelly, surely she does not deserve that? Knowing that your partner has been unfaithful can absolutely destroy you emotionally, even if you don't find out until after event. What is she really trying to achieve, stop the husband being able to go back to his wife?

If this was a friend of mine and she went ahead I would seriously consider ending the friendship.

VitaK

Why ruin someones life over this. Sounds like she just want to put the hurt on him for leaving her. Bad idea all together.

raven83

I think they are both as selfish as each other!!! I am not taking the moral high ground over the affair, more the fact that she out of spite is going to tell the blokes wife that he has been cheating and anonymously!!!!:eek::mad:

azzabazza

A woman scorned! No she shouldn't say anything.

Northern_Princess

I am very much of the opinion that you do not go near anyone who is in a relationship.

Your friend got involved with this man knowing full well he was with someone else and now she wants to tell his partner? It's sour grapes on your friend's part if you ask me as well as jealousy.

shellsuit

Sounds like she wants to cause as much misery and hurt to his wife, as she is feeling now.

Why would she want to do it anon? Once she spills the beans it won't be long before the wife gets it out of her husband who he had the affair with, and then what's she going to do when everyone knows it was her?

She's best keeping her mouth shut. And her legs while she's at it.

He's a disgusting pig too before anyone asks why I'm having a pop at just her.

VitaK

Our neighbour had a couple of bricks put through his windows for this exact thing. Its not worth it.