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Family holiday sleeping arrangements

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  • poet123
    poet123 Posts: 24,099 Forumite
    Parents together, kids together, getting changed in bathroom. No problems.
  • bestpud
    bestpud Posts: 11,048 Forumite
    Parents in one and kids in another.

    Have they suggested they wouldn't like to share, or is this something you think they may object to?
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,894 Forumite
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    I would say the mother/daughter, father/son is the best option but to be honest it really depends on the family dynamics. I have a brother who I wouldn't have wanted to share with at that age. Why wasn't it worked out when booking?
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  • peachyprice
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    Parents in one room, 'children' in the other.

    They've known each other since birth, if they're going to get precious about sharing a room on holiday they're of an age they can got on and pay for their own.
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  • dizziblonde
    dizziblonde Posts: 4,276 Forumite
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    When we did this it was me and my brother in one room, mum and step-father in the other... no WAY was I sharing with my mother - she snores to ridiculous levels!
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  • Spirit_2
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    Parents in one room, siblings in the other and getting changed in bathroom.

    My DD was backpacking last year and shared mixed dorms with strangers....if that helps with context.
  • janninew
    janninew Posts: 3,781 Forumite
    Who has paid for the holiday? If the 'kids' (who aren't really kids anymore) have paid for themselves they should get an equal say in the sleeping arrangements!
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  • Molly41
    Molly41 Posts: 4,919 Forumite
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    We had this last year and DD 19 shared with her "baby" brother 15. They really enjoyed sharing again as they had shared when younger and spent hours chatting away. They obviously respected each others privacy and got changed in bathroom. It worked well with no issues.
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  • Nottoobadyet
    Nottoobadyet Posts: 1,754 Forumite
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    I'm a 25 year old lady, but both my sister and mum snore like freight trains so I'd bid to share with my dad if it came to it!

    In any combination I'd volunteer for a sofa (or even the floor) rather than sharing a bed. Thats just me though.
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  • littlerat
    littlerat Posts: 1,792 Forumite
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    Siblings together - I've never understood why people would find it odd.
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