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Family holiday sleeping arrangements

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  • Gillyx
    Gillyx Posts: 6,847 Forumite
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    Lucky kids still being taken on holiday! Should do what the parents wish, imo.
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  • Maddy25
    Maddy25 Posts: 86 Forumite
    parents in one, kids in other
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  • GobbledyGook
    GobbledyGook Posts: 2,195 Forumite
    Whatever the majority of the family are in favour of. I can see the pros and cons either way. If the kids are likely to be out late socialising together then I'd certainly have them sharing. It'd depend what they are used to doing previously.
  • balletshoes
    balletshoes Posts: 16,610 Forumite
    Family of mum, dad, son (20) and daughter (17) go on holiday and have 2 rooms.

    What would you expect the sleeping arrangements to be?

    1. Mum and dad in 1 room, son and daughter in the other? or
    2. Mum and daughter in 1 room, dad and son in the other?

    whichever they are most comfortable with as a family.

    i wouldn't have a problem with either arrangement.
  • LE3
    LE3 Posts: 612 Forumite
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    When we went on family hols as teens, mum & daughter shared, dad & son shared.
  • Have a diplomatic family discussion. Anyone with strong preferences of who they'd prefer to share with can explain their reasons and majority wins.
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  • good_advice
    good_advice Posts: 2,653 Forumite
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    Hiya, we had this sleeping arrangement in A 2 bed in Lanzarote.
    2 x twin beds sc apartment.
    Mum and dad one room and daughter the other. Son had the choice of sofa or other bed. He did half and half as the mood took him.
    Daughter was older but both teens.
    No problems.
    I would think it would depend on how grown up they can be about the costs and putting up with accommodation.
    The secret to success is making very small, yet constant changes.:)
  • Fire_Fox
    Fire_Fox Posts: 26,026 Forumite
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    There is no definitive answer, it's up to what you as a family feel comfortable with. Your daughter and son might prefer not to undress in front of one another but that is easy if there is a decent sized bathroom.
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  • rachbc
    rachbc Posts: 4,461 Forumite
    Parents in one kids in another for us.
    People seem not to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of character.
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  • oldhaggis
    oldhaggis Posts: 94 Forumite
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    Our two (boy and girl), have exactly the same age gap and often shared a room when we went away. They got changed in the bathroom.

    We always booked a twin room but on a couple of occasions we arrived to find there was a double bed and had to ask for the sofa to be made up into a second bed.

    On one occasion they were allocated a room where there was a mezzanine floor with a double bed, which DD bagged. DS had the sofa on the ground floor, which converted into a double bed with the TV right in front of it, so both parties were equally delighted with the arrangement.
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