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Trying for a Baby Part 8

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  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    lily - have a big big hug and a teeny slap. You're not doing anything wrong sweetie, you know that. xx
  • Hugs for all the CD1 ladies

    Tink – that dress is soooo pretty.

    Bigzippy - I’m sorry to hear your news but glad to hear things could be moving along for you

    Atton, yeah for Uni and the wedding

    Have a hug Lilymay. When your hopes are built up and then dashed it is totally understandable that you feel flat

    QQ – can you remove me from the testing list please? I don’t think I could cope with going back to work on a BFN and as its still early in my cycle it would probably be negative. I am going to hold off a bit as if I am pregnant then I still will be later in the week
  • RazWaz
    RazWaz Posts: 1,070 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hmm, I think I was a bit quick to call CD1. I'm still bleeding, but it's only really spotting. Had a pad in for a day but it's still clean.

    Trying to stay positive though, and at least the chemical let me know OH was definitely the problem and not me (He suffers from retrograde ejaculation) as 4 years NTNP without success did make me doubt myself a bit. We were originally going for IVF but because of the age gap in our relationship, by the time I'm over the NHS minimum age limit for funding, he'll be over the maximum one, and we just can't afford to go private. This month has sort of confirmed that choosing a donor was the right decision for us, although I am sort of sad that I'll never carry OH's child.
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    Morning Lady Bugs :D

    Huge Hugs to all in need & on CD1 or just feeling PANTS :A

    You are all amazing ladies and I love u all lots like jelly tots :A:D

    So tried dd2 in her dress this morning it is cute even if i say so myself. :o

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    Lily - Giving up work was a huge decision but it was wierd I watched the last episode of 24h in A & E and this staff were talking at the end about life being too short etc etc and I just thought it's not worth it sometimes the money doesn't make it better. :o I guess I am very lucky that DH sold his rented house and paid down a huge amount of our mortgage so we are in a position where my money was a bonus. :o I have talked to lots of friends who are stay at home mums and they have all said you adjust & cope with the money u do have. Fingers crossed they are right. I think the money side of it scares me the most. I have to trust DH that things are OK. Will feel odd not having my own money as I have worked since I was 15 :eek::eek:.
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • mrsj28
    mrsj28 Posts: 1,287 Forumite
    Tinks - that is THE CUTEST thing I have ever seen. Your DD is completely adorable and the dress looks gorgeous! Lovely! :)

    Are you going to start making and selling children's clothing?

    ETA - Tinks can you post the link to your facebook page again, I want to look at all of your creations!
  • Tinks, is that you in the picture with DD? If so, it's nice to put a face to a name!
    Don't worry about typing out my username - Call me COMP
    (Unless you know my real name - in which case, feel free to use that just to confuse people!)
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Testing list

    Sat 25th Aug - COMP
    Sat 25th Aug - Loulou
    Mon 27th Aug - Amyloofoo

    August graduates - Winner of July BFP predictions (7) vesper, razwaz :T

    Helenlk (30) TTC#1 since 03/12 BFP 16/08/12:j


    August BFP predictions

    Applepie - 6
    Gemmzie - 6
    Abis21 - 7
    Mogwai - 7
    Razwaz - 7
    Definately Blonde - 7
    Birdie - 8
    Good vibes - 8
    MrsJ - 8
    Maire - 8
    QQuaver - 8
    Lilymay - 9
    Time2deal - 9
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    edited 24 August 2012 at 11:16AM
    mrsj28 wrote: »
    Tinks - that is THE CUTEST thing I have ever seen. Your DD is completely adorable and the dress looks gorgeous! Lovely! :)

    Are you going to start making and selling children's clothing?

    ETA - Tinks can you post the link to your facebook page again, I want to look at all of your creations!

    Thank you

    http://https://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Vanessa-Bunting/262043163885851

    Did that work???? :o - NOPE see comp's post on next page for working link
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    edited 24 August 2012 at 1:34PM
    Team Sticky!

    CD31 amyloofoo - 23DPO :cool:
    CD41 mrsj28 - 22DPO :cool:
    CD26 COMP - 15DPO :cool:
    CD29 Loulou123 - 14DPO :cool:
    CD25 mogwai - 12DPO :cool:
    CD26 Definitely Blonde - 11DPO :cool:
    CD39 TeamLowe - 9DPO :cool:
    CD? scoobydoo - 9DPO :cool:
    CD22 time2deal - 8DPO :cool:
    CD23 lemonmelon - 8DPO :cool:
    CD24 good vibes - 8DPO :cool:
    CD25 apple*pie - 8DPO :cool:
    CD23 JoJoB - 8DPO :cool:
    CD19 MrsHappy - 7DPO :cool:
    CD24 becca0417 - 2DPO :cool:

    CD137 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov :o
    CD92 mfwbutneedhelp - Awaiting ov :o
    CD84 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov :o
    CD78 scarly* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD73 mssas - Awaiting ov :o
    CD58 Lily_The_Legend - Awaiting ov :o
    CD44 *BigBird* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD43 vesper - Awaiting ov :o
    CD39 TTC40 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD35 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD33 jellybean12 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD29 claretsgirl - Awaiting ov :o
    CD27 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 Abis21 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD23 Amus - Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 Tealover - Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 fraz_babe - Awaiting ov :o
    CD21 i love holidays - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 claire16c - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 needhelpsaving - Awaiting ov :o
    CD19 ticklepenny - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 teaandcupcakesplease - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 tinkwings - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Elsie37 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Leopardlady - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 codemonkey - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 Flee - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 firefly369 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 Miss Maid - Awaiting ov :o
    CD5 onlywayisup - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 atton83 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 lilymay - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 RazWaz - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 niknok - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 Metranil Vavin - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 coops228 - Awaiting ov :o

    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart
  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    Ahhh so cute Tink! Can't wait to have my baby so I can get bunting and pretty things from you! :D

    OH is at the doctor's today, what's the betting he 'forgets' to ask about the SA?! :p

    Sorry to hear the crappy news about your tubes BZ, it's amazing what they can do so there's still hope :) Glad (well, not *glad* but YKWIM) that it's not just me who noticed the offending sig and got all sniffy about it. :o

    Big hug and a little slap for Lily. I think you're probably stressing yourself out too much with all this which may be affecting things inside. Hide all of your tests and just try to relax for a couple of cycles. You and you OH BD quite often anyway don't you so keep that up. You're not douing anything wrong, Mother Nature is just a b!tch sometimes! Enjoy time with your little man and remember that you're already blessed. :)

    Hugs for AF/Chemical RazWaz :( How does your OH feel about using a donor? Having a think about the what-ifs I'm trying to figure out how we'd feel about having a baby that isn't biologically my OH's, not that I've said anything to him yet, this is all in my head for now. :o I suppose the plus side would be that there's no risk of him passing down his Dad's enormous nose and ginger hair, thankfully OH has neither but I'm aware that they're in his gene pool! ;)
    Overcome the notion that you must be ordinary. It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary!
    Goal Weight 140lb Starting Weight: 160lb Current Weight 145lb
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