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Trying for a Baby Part 8

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  • Gemmzie
    Gemmzie Posts: 14,876 Forumite
    Sorry to hear that MV, big hugs and plenty of chocolate x
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  • Just wanted to say massive massive hugs to bigbird and mv, its so unfair :(

    Congratulations niknok, wishing you lots of happiness and health
  • vesper
    vesper Posts: 941 Forumite
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    huge squishy hugs Mv. Life is such a b**ch!

    Congratulations Niknok!

    Time2deal, I know exactly what you mean about getting the 'crazies' the longer a person keeps trying to concieve. I was starting to get extremely bad. It's why I'm semi glad for my health problems over the last couple of months, as it meant no ttc. Now in my mind I have wiped out a year of trying and have set the clock to '0'. At the moment (how long will that last?) I am really calm about ttc, and it'll happen when it happens. However things sometimes upset me, like yesterday we went and looked at a different house to rent, as I really need to move away from the village we live in (long story short, but due to my illness we have lost our friends here). Anywho, the house is wonderful and is a family house, but there was a flicker in my mind for a minute saying but what happens if we don't ever have a family. Then my mind just snapped back, well then we will live in a perfect big house, with plenty of room for our hobbies.
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  • Does anyone know if I should count today as CD1?

    I am def bleeding like a regular AF.
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • Really sorry to read that MV, hope you are ok xxx

    Congrats to Niknok xx

    Hope everyone else is ok too!

    Think I may have EWCM today....can someone remind me what that means please! I dont think its "ahem" (left overs :o) as we BD yesterday morning and I had nothing during the day or last night.

    Hope you all have a good day

    xxx
  • Does anyone know if I should count today as CD1?

    I am def bleeding like a regular AF.

    I dont know but sure others will answer soon. I guess you could wait a couple of days and see if it carries on like AF or just stops and maybe take another digi? xx
  • Yes I am going to take another digi at the weekend as in theory it would have moved up to the next stage.

    Been reading online stories of women who had bleeding around AF time and were still preg. I honestly don't think this is the case here (much as I wish) as I just feel periody (IFYKWIM)

    Also my nausea seems to have gone, although the thought of coffee still doesn't appeal.
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • *BigBird*
    *BigBird* Posts: 1,000 Forumite
    It doesn't stop you making plans and thinking about the future though, and when that's gone suddenly it's pretty gutting.

    I know exactly what you mean. And I think what makes me losing this bean particularly difficult for me was that it would have been due a couple of days before my Mum's birthday and I was excited about giving her the BEST 75th birthday present EVER :o

    And I heard from a friend last night to tell me she's pregnant. I'm really genuinely pleased for her, but talk about bad timing!

    But, onwards and upwards. I have no idea when I'm likely to ov, but we BD this morning just in case.

    I'd guess that you'd count this as CD1 MV. I'm no expert though. I wonder if I should count the start of my bleed last week as CD1? The nurse who called with my blood test results yesterday told me AF should arrive in 4-6 weeks.
    You can do anything, make anything, dream anything. If you change the world, the world will change.
  • It's so hard to know what to do, and in fact there isn't much you can do at this early stage.
    I have an appt with my GP next Thursday (notoriously difficult to get an appointment at my Dr's unless your leg is hanging off), doubt any GP will be that bothered at this early stage to be honest. It just makes it hard to know when I may ov again.

    Sorry again you are going through this too BB. I was lying in bed this morning thinking what a lovely age gap 2.5 years would be between DS and new baby :(

    Sorry everyone else for bringing the thread down. Got no one to talk to.
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    It's so hard to know what to do, and in fact there isn't much you can do at this early stage.
    I have an appt with my GP next Thursday (notoriously difficult to get an appointment at my Dr's unless your leg is hanging off), doubt any GP will be that bothered at this early stage to be honest. It just makes it hard to know when I may ov again.

    Sorry again you are going through this too BB. I was lying in bed this morning thinking what a lovely age gap 2.5 years would be between DS and new baby :(

    Sorry everyone else for bringing the thread down. Got no one to talk to.

    Huge Hugs MV :iloveyou::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:
    If you can think it........it will happen
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