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Trying for a Baby Part 8

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  • mrsj28
    mrsj28 Posts: 1,287 Forumite
    becca0417 wrote: »
    Eugh. I need someone to tell me off! I've had 2 negative tests now, 13dpo today so AF was due yesterday. I feel like AF is going to arrive any minute but I've felt like this for nearly a week. Fed up now, AF just hurry up!!!! Stop me SS-ing!

    Plus OHs cousin has just announced her pregnancy. I thought we'd be first but obviously not. I had to go to bed to cry so DH didn't see me.

    Becca - massive ((hugs)) and a teeny tiny telling off slap :D

    Even with AF due yesterday, 13DPO is still early for a positive test . I'm really sorry but I can't remember how long you've been off birth control? When I came off the pill last year I had two clockwork 30/31 day cycles, and then a mammoth 48 day cycle. It was really stressful expecting AF to show, and then no show, and then negative tests etc, so I really do feel for you and hope hope hope it's a BFP!

    ((hugs)) for hearing the pregnancy announcement too, it can be really hard. I always try and remind myself that a) I want our baby, not theirs, and b) I wouldn't wish a long wait/ttc difficulties on anybody...... but it's much easier said than done, and there is always a bit of jealousy/sadness however happy I am for people. You are in good company here - we all struggle with pregnancy announcements.
  • mrsj28
    mrsj28 Posts: 1,287 Forumite
    tinkwings wrote: »
    You don't get rid of me & my pretties that easily!!!!!:o:D:D:D:D:D:D:D

    Good - we'd miss you too much! xxx
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Thanks mrsj. I know it's early, I'm very impatient which isn't a good combination for TTC is it?! I've been off the pill since April. I think my cycles have settled now, they seem to be around the 32 day mark with ov around CD 20 so a 12 day LP. That's how my last 2-3 have been. My first one was nearly 60 days!

    I doubt it is a BFP, we didn't BD at the right time, I had weird OPKs, lots of things really. Oh well, just want next cycle to come!

    How are you? I've been thinking of you, it's lovely to see you around xxx
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • mrsj28
    mrsj28 Posts: 1,287 Forumite
    becca0417 wrote: »
    Thanks mrsj. I know it's early, I'm very impatient which isn't a good combination for TTC is it?! I've been off the pill since April. I think my cycles have settled now, they seem to be around the 32 day mark with ov around CD 20 so a 12 day LP. That's how my last 2-3 have been. My first one was nearly 60 days!

    I doubt it is a BFP, we didn't BD at the right time, I had weird OPKs, lots of things really. Oh well, just want next cycle to come!

    How are you? I've been thinking of you, it's lovely to see you around xxx

    I think we are all pretty impatient here! We just all really want a baby :) I think ttc has taught/is teaching me a lot about patience though, which is definitely a good thing!

    Thanks for asking, I'm doing ok. Just taking it one day at a time :o We won't be officially ttc-ing again for a while, but I like to keep reading/posting here as I feel very at home here and like to know how everybody is getting on!
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    mrsj28 wrote: »
    I think we are all pretty impatient here! We just all really want a baby :) I think ttc has taught/is teaching me a lot about patience though, which is definitely a good thing!

    Thanks for asking, I'm doing ok. Just taking it one day at a time :o We won't be officially ttc-ing again for a while, but I like to keep reading/posting here as I feel very at home here and like to know how everybody is getting on!

    I'm quite a patient person (I'm a teacher so goes with the job!) but where things I have no control over are concerned... I have no patience at all!

    It's lovely to have you around - you've always been so kind to me and I hope you will be back around here when you are ready :)
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    lilymay1 wrote: »
    Thanks for the kind words ladies but I am def not pregnant.

    I've been doing ov tests randomly during this cycle and they've only just started getting dark now, which fits in nicely with when I would expect to ov. Ish. That pregnancy test is an evap line, for sure. I have a few from that pack left and I will do another one tomorrow to see what comes up but it is almost certainly just a rubbish batch.

    Becca - I will tell you off if you like? :P Stop SS'ing!!! Big hugs for feeling poopy. You will get your bfp :)

    Atton - I agree with MrsnotJ...she speaks a lot of sense! At 9dpo (and only CD19 in your cycle) I wouldn't be going off a OPK. Use a pregnancy test, but not until af is late.

    Enjoy your Sunday everyone. My boss phoned me earlier and I have to go into the office to finish a presentation tomorrow.....on Sunday......at 6am >.< :(

    What????? Why 6am? Next time if you see her ringing dont answer!! Thats insane!

    Im back from the paralympics had an amazing time, the athletes are so inspiring. Saw a nail biting silver medal in the swimming, the crowd was going insane including me :rotfl: Then saw athletics this morning, stadium was so brilliant to be in, and we had a great view. Was so lovely to cheer on athletes from all countries as well as ours. And my friend is a games maker so got us a nice discount in the shop to boot lol!

    We never got in a 2nd well timed bd in the hotel in the end as we were so tired by the time we got back and knew we had to get up early today so decided not to. We'll be on holiday hopefully the next time I ov, so just decided to look forward to that really.

    Boiling hot today, only managed one lap of the olympic park after our event and had to leave as we were sweating! Looks like its set to be a scorcer tomorrow too! :T

    Hope everyone is having a great weekend.
  • atton83
    atton83 Posts: 604 Forumite
    Told my friend of. Ty for thr advice i made her walk away from the sticks

    I knew you guys would know

    Your all a plethera of knowledge

    Tommorow i have to go to church third reading of the banns and hand over £35 then i never have to go back there. The congragation are kinda different. Wave flags while singing. Argue with the vicar during the service. Try to kiss n hug u after just meeting you for the giving of the peace and 1hr45mins later the service is done. I mis the service of
  • atton83
    atton83 Posts: 604 Forumite
    The church were gettin married in 45 mins n tge service is done

    Im in cov tues n thursday uni tues dsa assessment thursday

    Need to get in now im no good at waiting

    Oh n cause benefits have stopped two days after not gettin paid my housing offi er is on my doorstep tellin me pay or well take u home yes just what i need
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Testing list


    September graduates-Winner of August BFP predictions (3) no one (closest Applepie & Gemmzie)

    Definitely blonde (33) TTC#1 since 11/11 (1mc)
    BFP 1/9/12:j
    Tinkwings (39) TTC #3 since 05/11 (mc 08/11) BFP 04/09/12:j
    *BigBird* (37) TTC#2 since 04/12 BFP 05/09/12:j
    claretsgirl (39) TTC#1 since 01/12 BFP 06/09/12:j


    September BFP predictions

    Lilymay – 5
    mogwai – 5
    TeamLowe - 6

    coops – 6
    MV – 7
    Applepie – 6

    Elsie – 7
    QQuaver - 7
    RazWaz – 7
    squ1rrel – 8
    COMP – 8
    Birdie - 9
    onlywayisup - 10
    abis – 11
    Becca – 12
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    edited 9 September 2012 at 5:04PM
    Team Sticky!

    CD40 becca0417 – 14DPO :cool:

    CD29 Birdie85* - 11PO :cool:
    CD20 atton83 - 10DPO :cool:
    CD22 Miss Maid - 9DPO :cool:
    CD28 Elsie37 - 8DPO :cool:
    CD18 PommeVerte - 5DPO :cool:
    CD18 Metranil Vavin - 4DPO :cool:
    CD18 RazWaz - 4DPO :cool:
    CD36 claire16c - 2DPO :cool:
    CD16 Loulou123 - 2DPO :cool:
    CD15 COMP - 2DPO :cool:
    CD19 lilymay - 1DPO :cool:

    CD? Secretdebts - Awaiting ov :o

    CD? scarly*- Awaiting ov:o

    CD74 Lily_The_Legend - Awaiting ov :o

    CD59 vesper - Awaiting ov :o

    CD49 jellybean12 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD38 Tealover–Awaiting ov :o
    CD38 fraz_babe - Awaiting ov :o

    CD37 i love holidays-Awaiting ov:o

    CD36 needhelpsaving - Awaiting ov :o
    CD35 ticklepenny - Awaiting ov :o

    CD32 mssas - Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 minimuffin12 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD25 Leopardlady - Awaiting ov :o
    CD25 Squ1rrel5-Awaitingov :o

    CD25 codemonkey - Awaiting ov :o

    CD24 Flee - Awaitingov :o

    CD22 firefly369 - Awaitingov :o

    CD21 onlywayisup - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 Gemmzie - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 niknok - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 coops228 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 amyloofoo - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 TeamLowe - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 JoJoB - Awaiting ov :o

    CD12 Lilian1977 - Awaiting ov :o

    CD11 time2deal - Awaiting ov :o

    CD11 good vibes - Awaiting ov :o

    CD10 Abis21 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 trina2010 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 apple*pie – Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 scoobydoo – Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 mogwai - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 MrsHappy - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 Amus - Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 TTC40-Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 Purcy81 - Awaiting ov :o

    CD2 teaandcupcakesplease - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 littleme - Awaiting ov :o
    CD0 QQuaver*- Awaiting AF :o



    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart
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