Trying for a Baby Part 8

abis21

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: Crikey moses Tinks!!! :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: You well and truly deserve that BFP after the effort you put in this month :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Had DH recovered yet?!? I am with the other ladies. I would be very proud of 3 days in a row, just once per day :rotfl::rotfl:

Sending lots of sticky vibes your way. To say you are only 10DPO if the lists are up to date, then thats a fab positive line. Try not to worry about the what ifs, just enjoy that for this moment you are pregnant after a long journey to get to this point. :A

Bigzips - Hugs for your appt. There are positives in that summary tho, but maybe you are for now a little too disappointed to see them. They will try to correct your tubes, just next month. Thats not long to wait. This in turn may help, or it might at least help with your bleeding. In the meantime, you can continue losing weight as you are doing now. How far away are you roughly now? Did I read the other day that its through mainly healthy eating / cutting down? Are there any exercises you can do which would be comfortable for you? Swimming, erm, low impact type classes maybe? I think I remember you have an illness/condition that may prevent strenuous exercise, but forgive me if this is not correct. Surely they will consider you for the list before you are at the goal BMI?? After all the hard work and effort you have put in, it seems a shame to delay it further - especially when you will have a waiting list anyway. 2 cycles of IVF for free is a good thing. Some people don't get any for free, due to age etc You may only need the one. Keep the faith. It will work The time thing / waiting sucks. If my DH said to me "time will fly" every time I moaned about having to wait to TTC after the miscarriage I would have smacked him in the chops. It was not helpful in the slightest. So I won't patronise you and say the same thing. But, it has been 4 months nearly for me. And looking back, that has gone kind of quite fast (apart from the first few days/weeks). And lets face it - christmas always sneaks right up and comes really fast. And by then you will be on a waiting list, and every day will be a step closer on your journey.

Anyways, I've waffled enough there. Sometimes after I have digested new information, I feel a lot better about it. I HATE the unknown, and un-quantified. I deal so much better with knowing facts, and time scales - even if they are disappointing to me at first. Hopefully you may take a little comfort in this too once you have had time to think it over. :A

coops228

*BigBird* wrote: »

That's definitely a line Tinks :j:j

And I should know, I've squinted at enough today No need to squint at yours though

Woooo! There must be something in the water in our neck of the woods, lol

Ha ha, so I'm your neck of the woods so hoping it rubs off!!!!:T

Congratulations tinks, looks positive to me!!!!!
Bigbird, suspect you'll have a bfp in the morning too!!!!

Hugs to mrsj. Xxxxxx

firefly369

Amazing news Tinks & BB Congratulations:j. I hope you have happy healthy pregnancies.:j

Gemmzie & Scooby - Hugs for AF.

Lillian - Your DS looks a very cheeky little chap. You must be a proud Momma.

BZ - I hope you get the treatment you need asap.

QQ - Welcome back. Glad you had a nice time on your Hols.

Atton - Your dress is lovely and those roses were beautiful. I hope you have a fantastic wedding day.;)

Sending Hugs to MrsJ.

AFM-. Still awaiting ovulation. Trying to BD as often as possible (don't think we can manage twice a day Tinks :eek:but I am willling to consider anything at this point:rotfl:) and hoping that this cycle will be a bit shorter than the last one. If not I think it is time to make a doctors appointment.

mrsj28

Tinks - fantastic news, am so so happy for you :j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j

Looks like it was worth breaking DH!!!!!!!!!!!

Wishing you a very very happy healthy and pregnancy, and another beautiful baby.

BigBird - those lines look promising. Here's keeping everything crossed for a BFP in the morning


Lovely ttc ladies, thank you all so much for your hugs and messages of support and concern. This is an amazing community and I feel really supported by you all - thank you so much

I won't be back on the ttc wagon for a little while - I think we could do with stepping off the roller coaster for a little bit. We won't try again until at least after I have had a proper period, and I think we'll just NTNP until Christmas and then regroup after that...

But... I want to stay on this thread, mostly to chat with you fun people and stalk you all and make sure you get your BFPs and are long gone by the time we are ttc-ing again... and also, (I remember Abis saying this when she couldn't ttc after her miscarriage) it would be nice to get to know the newbies who might be around when I am back 'properly'.

QQ - could you add me to the list on the front page, but not to Team Sticky at the moment? Thank you

Thanks again ladies - you are the best.

Mrs(not)j(not)28 xx

atton83

Tinks thats a + congratulations thats grest for you

Today i had a makup trial and and hady nails done. Pics in a bit i will b going for all out bling on every finger

mrsj28

Bigzippy - sending big ((hugs)) to you and Mr Bigzippy.

atton83

http://s1245.photobucket.com/albums/gg596/atton83/Snapbucket/?action=view&current=CFA2A7BC-orig.jpg hope that works im going with the first nail on every finger

TeamLowe

Mrsnotj that sounds like a good plan to me, I do regret trying straightaway after mine (although I doubt I'd be saying that if I had conceived) as the negative tests broke my heart all over again. Plus your hormones are put of whack so it's easier (especially without QQ to keep you in check) to convince yourself it's from a new pregnancy, so a little bit of a time might do you good

Oh and tinkwings, thank you for sharing your um, regimen lol told DH and I think it's helped to convince him of the whole 'to have a baby you need to have a lot of intercourse' he's been quite blas! as the first pregnancy was a suprise so thought we didn't need to do anything special but I reminded him that it was a honeymoon baby so we definitely had a lot of BDing that month lol x x

abis21

Sounds like a good plan to me Mrs(not)J :cool: I like to talk to you ladies. The WTTC thread was quieter, plus they didn't 'know' me. I like hanging around here (altho would rather be on the big pregnancy thread if I am truly honest No offence ladies - I hope we all are on there )

Some days I wasn't up to posting, but thats fine, cos you can lurk when you want to, and post when you want to.

I generally used the miscarriage thread to post on when I was feeling down and miserable, and came on this one when I was feeling more positive. That kind of helped me a little, cos I got the support when I needed it from other ladies who understood, but also could join in with the chatter etc on here without scaring the newbies or bringing this thread down. But obv, you should do whatever is right for you :cool: And I'm sure I have moaned plenty on this thread too come to think of it

Big hugs once again for you and your DH :A

mrsj28

atton83 wrote: »

http://s1245.photobucket.com/albums/gg596/atton83/Snapbucket/?action=view&current=CFA2A7BC-orig.jpg hope that works im going with the first nail on every finger

Atton that nail looks brilliant! You will look amazing on your wedding day