Partner lying, defensive, what would you do?

go_cat

If was the situation your best friend was in what would you be advising her to do ......... RUN RUN RUN!

Oh and if you know he's been sleeping with you both at the same time then you might need to get yourself tested ..better to be sure

cbrown372

you ask what would you do? I'd think about my kids for a start you seem to have upped sticks and moved in with this guy with no thought to the consequences on them or your apparent health problems, just the lure of a big house in a lovely part of the country? Time to wake up and smell the coffee.

green1970

I remember your last thread, hiddenidentity, have you given up your previous home then - I know he was occasionally staying at yours before when you were having problems. Can you go back there or have you completely given that up? Did you ever complete the Freedom programme that you registered for and has it helped you to recognise that this is a bad relationship

Padstow

I wonder what's best when replying to a post. Take it at face value or trawl through the OP's posting history?
I think take it at face value. We all have history, whether documented here or not, but today is the present and that's what matters.

ani_26

I haven't trawled through the op's posting history, but i have participated in most of op's threads.

The writing has always been on the wall. Hi, when you said how much oh earned, and yet he was still working nights for extra income, i was shouting at the computer screen, can you not see it? It's obvious? or there's a good chance, he is spending his nights with someone else.

Please, please, do yourself a favour and bin him. Because that's where he belongs. xx

woody2234

I bet it was hes idea to get a joint bank account and the reason people have joint accounts is to show trust

Padstow

ani_26 wrote: »

I haven't trawled through the op's posting history, but i have participated in most of op's threads.

The writing has always been on the wall. Hi, when you said how much oh earned, and yet he was still working nights for extra income, i was shouting at the computer screen, can you not see it? It's obvious? or there's a good chance, he is spending his nights with someone else.

Please, please, do yourself a favour and bin him. Because that's where he belongs. xx

I wasn't critcising but as soon as the past rears it's head I feel a bit naive when there is obviously more to the story.
I hope OP has gone home to mum.