Is it ever acceptable to push your OH when they've really wound you up?

meg72

No it is NOT.

dizsiebubba

KiKi wrote: »

Does this involve windows?

:rotfl:gonna get caught at work on here laughing at my monitor...

aliasojo

Hofmeister wrote: »

see this link, it is amazing how it is deemed accpetable when it is a woman doing it to a man.........

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/comment/54578231#Comment_54578231

Aw c'mon Hof, no-one actually said it was ok for her to talk to him like that.

The general agreement was that she was out of line for doing so.

aliasojo

I can't handle the excitement any more....I'm off for a Cornetto.

I expect to see lots of indignant posts when I come back.:rotfl:

Hofmeister

Just for the record as i have go home now (only do this sort of thing in work time ....... work for the public sector you see), i only think it is acceptable when they have REALLY wound you up, you know such as leaving a dirty cup on the side etc, that sort of thing.

fannyanna

This post is funny but makes an extremely valid point.

As a woman I am often baffled by the double standards I read about on this site.

peachyprice

Hofmeister wrote: »

Just for the record as i have go home now (only do this sort of thing in work time ....... work for the public sector you see), i only think it is acceptable when they have REALLY wound you up, you know such as leaving a dirty cup on the side etc, that sort of thing.

You wouldn't want to live with me then, you'd end up putting my head through the window I'd left open.

Hofmeister

fannyanna wrote: »

This post is funny but makes an extremely valid point.

As a woman I am often baffled by the double standards I read about on this site.

Thanks Fannyanna, i was just trying to highlight the double standards and not belittle ANY form of abuse. I was just getting wound up by some of the responses on another thread, and the majority were from women who were (sort of) saying that it wasn't abuse (woman doing it to a man), where as for me it is abuse irrelevant of sex.

I will stop now i promise

shellsuit

If I've done something stupid, then I'm obviously stupid, so why would it bother me if my husband told me I was stupid?

Should he just ignore my stupidity and buy me some diamonds and a horse?

fannyanna

shellsuit wrote: »

Should he just ignore my stupidity and buy me some diamonds and a horse?

Of course. Us women should be treated like princesses you know :rotfl: