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Is it ever acceptable to push your OH when they've really wound you up?

Hofmeister
Hofmeister Posts: 36 Forumite
in Marriage, relationships & families
Just a question to put out there, what are peoples opinion's?
Is it OK to call your OH stupid because she has done something wrong AGAIN!
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  • Tropez
    Tropez Posts: 3,696 Forumite
    Not really. Presumably, most people wouldn't want to be with someone they actually thought was stupid so calling them such is an attempt to belittle them and exercise superiority, which really doesn't strike me as a healthy relationship.

    Unless of course they're into power exchange and domination games but that's something else entirely.
  • Mupette
    Mupette Posts: 4,599 Forumite
    Hofmeister wrote: »
    Just a question to put out there, what are peoples opinion's?
    Is it OK to call your OH stupid because she has done something wrong AGAIN!


    no it is not OK, if you feel they have something wrong sit down and talk to them, if you feel you should be 'push' them because they have wound you up (assuming its you and not the other way around) perhaps you should review wether you should be in this relationship?
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  • aliasojo
    aliasojo Posts: 23,053 Forumite
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    :D

    Just

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  • KiKi
    KiKi Posts: 5,381 Forumite
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    As long as it's only a light push. A strong push should be left for when she's done something wrong for the THIRD time.

    Does this involve windows?
    ' <-- See that? It's called an apostrophe. It does not mean "hey, look out, here comes an S".
  • Hofmeister
    Hofmeister Posts: 36 Forumite
    :rotfl:i thank you
  • suited-aces
    suited-aces Posts: 1,938 Forumite
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    From this board, only if they're male.
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  • aliasojo
    aliasojo Posts: 23,053 Forumite
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    KiKi wrote: »
    As long as it's only a light push. A strong push should be left for when she's done something wrong for the THIRD time.

    Does this involve windows?

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    Herman - MP for all! :)
  • Hofmeister
    Hofmeister Posts: 36 Forumite
    see this link, it is amazing how it is deemed accpetable when it is a woman doing it to a man.........

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/comment/54578231#Comment_54578231
  • Hofmeister
    Hofmeister Posts: 36 Forumite
    BTW, yes i am bored, but it is funny
  • pelirocco
    pelirocco Posts: 8,275 Forumite
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    I normally throw stuff , heavy stuff
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