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Bedtime= Mummy time

I am a stay at home mum with a two year old.When she goes to bed i feel it is my time and pour a glass of wine when i am making dinner.
Does any one else do this?
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  • I would think you're doing the exactly the same as Mums (parents?) up and down the country! I'm a SAHM to 4-year-old twins and a 2-year-old girl too, so I'll raise my glass to you later (about 7.30 pm) ... ;)
  • Yep same here.
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  • lottee
    lottee Posts: 1,389 Forumite
    C'mon guys, a glass??!! More like a bottle for me!!! I'm not a SAHM (work p/t) but I still do this on occasions, more so at the weekends, but if I fancy it during the week, then I still do.

    It's just nice to chill out, & not here the word 'mummy' for a few hours sometimes!
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  • Rachie_B
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    lottee wrote: »
    C'mon guys, a glass??!! More like a bottle for me!!! I'm not a SAHM (work p/t) but I still do this on occasions, more so at the weekends, but if I fancy it during the week, then I still do.

    It's just nice to chill out, & not here the word 'mummy' for a few hours sometimes!


    :rotfl: :beer:

    I would say having a glass of something of an evening after a hard day looking after the kids is normal :D

    looking after a 2 yr old is hard work ! ;)
  • bunty109
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    It's perfectly normal......as the children get older though you might find the time at which the wine starts gets earlier!!!

    I'll now have a glass whilst I cook dinner and find most of my friends do too!
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    Does any one else do this?

    God Yes! Well, usually anyway. My husband is away at the mo so I've been refraining so that I'm on the best form I can be in the mornings (I am so not a morning person).

    My daughter will be two next month and it's a constant battle right now. If I don't watch her constantly, she's into everything and there are spillages/breakages/chocolate wall murals. If I do watch her, the housework gets neglected and there's more chance of a mini-disaster as there's more stuff lying wround for her to damage :wall:

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  • Def yes...we can all think of each other 2 night ...what time is it??!!
    cheers Mums ...and Dads ......smile it confuses people..
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  • inkie
    inkie Posts: 2,609 Forumite
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    Teetotal - and so my 'me time' is a coffee and a good book after the kids have gone to bed - although as DD1 is that bit older - it seems to be getting later!!
  • Eels100
    Eels100 Posts: 984 Forumite
    Hell, I did this before I was pregnant, and I fully intend to return to my little pleasures as soon as I can after sproglet is born!

    Everyone needs even just ten minutes a day which are "all about me" - my preference was a hot bubble bath, a good book and a large glass of red, ideally with chocolates within reach ... :D
  • froggergirl
    froggergirl Posts: 213 Forumite
    I do this and really enjoy it, start slightly earlier on a Saturday - today we were at a kids birthday party and then came home where the kids were out playing in the garden so poured myself a drink then before I started cooking dinner - very relaxing!
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