Famed 11+ thread...home of the elite coupon swipers and obsessive chocolate stashers!

nikkilala_2

ausmummy wrote: »

Why are OH's so :mad:
I save and save to get debts and bills paid and for what!!! For OH to just keep spending what ever he likes on booze. Yes he has a serious drink problem and whenever I think I might get a bit of our debt paid it is gone. Our grocery's are around £80 a month. He's spent £125 that I know about in the last three 3 weeks. Where I'm going to find the money to cover that I don't know. I just hope this latest binge period ends soon.

Sorry to hijack the thread. I'm just so upset.

Feel for you:(My first DH had a massive drink problem so can relate to what you're saying and harsh as it is he probably won't stop till you stop till you stop subsidising him, if you know what I mean. I ended up with our house being in negative equity as he'd remortgaged (I didn't have a clue:eek:) And even after we got divorced he managed to disappear and the mortgage company came to me for £14,000 when the house got repossessed!! Again I didnt have a clue because I'd moved out, This was over 20 years ago and I was younger and more naive then:o

Snap-ant

ausmummy ♥

Wishing MMW all well for tomorrow ♥

ausmummy

Malaga0034 wrote: »

!!!!!! I must have a Mouse in my garage,all my swag is on racking but lately I have got stuff everywhere..
It's ate 3 Terry's chocolate orange,galaxys,dairy milks
,old el paso wraps and taco shells,Whitworth raisins,Snack Mars and Snickers,so god knows what size this thing is now.
It's even started in me Flash Wipes !!!!!! ive chucked a load out and I'm going to have a Major Clean out over the weekend
Honestly you wouldn't get your breath what's its munched through lol

That is awful to happen but thanks as it did make me chuckle - and I really needed one. I have visions of a monster size mouse hooked on T bargins and getting it's monster family to go and invaid/raid the nearest store.

streetlights

Enterprise_1701C wrote: »

I vote something like salmon or caviar - the king (or queen) of the seas!

how about moorish Idol. they are very beautiful but very hard to keep. I can imagine Mr T having a high turnover of lovely staff because they don't know how to keep them.

Bananababe

ausmummy wrote: »

Why are OH's so :mad:
I save and save to get debts and bills paid and for what!!! For OH to just keep spending what ever he likes on booze. Yes he has a serious drink problem and whenever I think I might get a bit of our debt paid it is gone. Our grocery's are around £80 a month. He's spent £125 that I know about in the last three 3 weeks. Where I'm going to find the money to cover that I don't know. I just hope this latest binge period ends soon.

Sorry to hijack the thread. I'm just so upset.

Theres no easy thing to say to you without sounding judgemental or condescending. The only thing I will share with you is that its not meant to be like that. My OH is an absolute doll who would give me his last breath and that's how its supposed to be in marriage.
I wish you the best I really mean that, Im not in your shoes and wish you happiness and peace to come xx

Snap-ant

karlie88 wrote: »

It reminds me of Harry Hill's TV Burp:

I like bluefin tuna, but I also like GEMs and angel fish. But which is better? There's only one way to find out...........

:rotfl::rotfl: FIGHT :rotfl::rotfl:

jan.t

purdita wrote: »

Is the Kosher dept listed on the T's website as such or does it come under world foods?
No mention of kosher within 100 miles of me!!!

Purdita, on the website for a Tesco I'm going to check out tomorrow to try and find some Jam , it shows a list of symbols under 'food ranges' ie, fish counter, chicken counter, meat counter, world foods, Asian, Halal, Kosher etc etc , but as Msgoggins found out, this may not be accurate.

altojack

nikkilala wrote: »

Feel for you:(My first DH had a massive drink problem so can relate to what you're saying and harsh as it is he probably won't stop till you stop till you stop subsidising him, if you know what I mean. I ended up with our house being in negative equity as he'd remortgaged (I didn't have a clue:eek:) And even after we got divorced he managed to disappear and the mortgage company came to me for £14,000 when the house got repossessed!! Again I didnt have a clue because I'd moved out, This was over 20 years ago and I was younger and more naive then:o

Denial is key in a situation like this unfortunately, and the lies are never ending. I had to stop bailing out DS1, hard tho it was, I did it and felt better for it.
My uncles 3rd wife had heavy drink problems too and she denied it and lied and even had stashes of bottles hidden all around the house after he died.
Heart rending tho it is, a firm stance has to be taken

tigerwhite_2

karlie88 wrote: »

I'd vote for something like a Bluefin Tuna.

Apparently, they are the number 1 most endangered species of fish.....i.e. they're rare to find; just like an extremely nice Tesco employee!

I like bluefin tuna... it would get shortened to Tuna or BF Tuna though.. Tuna V Trout :rotfl:

Snap-ant

:o:o:o:o:o:o:o:o:o:o:o:o:o:o:o:o:o

My old Boss is getting married on saturday.
Wrapped up a heart shaped frying pan (you know the one) Bride & Groom keyring (you know the one) & a Bush DAB radio (you know the one)
Anyway gave them to a friend to give to her yesterday.
Friend has just called round clutching my card which she had removed from bag......
It seems my ex Boss is not marrying the man I thought she was with (for 5 years) :o:o
Phew - saved - will buy new card tomorrow & write correct name