Don't know what to do

sallypalma

The same thing happened to me with my (ex) husband. He said he was on a game site and if I checked this was the page he had up but he cleared the history after every session. Now my Mum didn't raise any stupid children and I realised he was up to something :mad::mad:

I bought an "undelete" program very cheaply over the net and when this showed he had been visiting dating and "adult" sites I knew my suspicions were right. I bought and installed a key logger and within a week I found out he was emailing at least 4 women, sending them pictures (I think he must have used the zoom for those !) and bragging about how his stupid wife did not suspect anything. I am not saying your partner is doing this but his behavior is suspicious. I would definitely get an undelete program and if that shows nothing but "safe" sites he is probably just being selfish. You really need to ask yourself what you will do if you find out he has been emailing etc other women though, in other words do you really want to know ? I did and I am very glad I found out what he was up to.

BitterAndTwisted

It wouldn't matter to me whether he was emailing or not, just that he was happier doing whatever we know it is after hours when his OH is in bed rather than spending it in there with her enjoying private-time together. What would matter to me is the secrecy and the covering up and he's not very good at that either. What a numpty! A lot of woman don't worry too much about adult-content websites themselves, which is just as well because most men can't help themselves but to check them out from time to time. If not constantly.

I'd be minded to hand him a box of paper hankies on my way up to bed and tell him not to use too many or I'd need more housekeeping money from him.

Eden1

I did ask him more about the site and he said I can look at it if I don't trust him so I said ok then! It was a car forum and he went into a thread and posted a reply whiket i was with him and as soon as he did that it appeared like sum female users came on saying hi with xx's. I said they seem very familiar with him and he just said thru are like that with everybody mmmm!