Ending my marriage, struggling to cope....

Person_one

How's it going OP? Hope you're ok.

moneysavermum_2

Person_one wrote: »

Do something concrete and irreversible.

Pack his stuff up and take it to wherever he'll be staying from now on.

Tell all your friends and family you are separating and you plan to divorce.

Sell your engagement ring.

Ask the bank to freeze your joint accounts and require two signatures for action on them.

Get his name taken off any bills you can.

Is your son at school? Ring them to let them know of the change in your son's home situation.

Ring the hospital and tell them that his mum is now the main contact for him and you won't be available to pick him up on discharge as you are separated.

Stuff like that will make you feel as if you've well and truly made the decision and I expect less likely to go back on it.

100% agree with the above......no messing.....no more depression.....no more negative feelings.....OUT HE GOES!!!!!!!!!! HE WASNT THINKING OF YOU AT ALL WHILE HE WAS TEXTING THESE WOMEN...HES SELFISH AND THERES ONLY ONE PLACE HE SHOULD BE .........SINGLE....COME ON OP YOU CANT ALLOW A PERSON TO TREAT YOU IN THIS MANNER....THE NEXT THING IS HELL BE BRINGING HER HOME.....THEN INTO YOUR BED.....DRAW A LINE NOW BEFORE IT GETS WORSE.