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  • gollygosh
    gollygosh Posts: 183 Forumite
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    I always put my hand up. 'Manners maketh the man'
    Time, Tide and Diarrhoea wait for no man. ;)
  • lesalanos
    lesalanos Posts: 863 Forumite
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    1886 wrote: »
    Do you say thank you to a car that has stopped to let you by as there was a parked car on their side of the road?

    Be honest

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  • noelphobic
    noelphobic Posts: 2,297 Forumite
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    what about putting the bar down on the conveyor belt in the supermarket so the next person can put their shopping down? I always do but get annoyed if the person behind me can't be bothered to thank me. I also find it annoying if the person in front of me can't be bothered to put the bar down.

    Btw, I do thank anyone who stops to let my car pass.
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  • pendulum
    pendulum Posts: 2,302 Forumite
    I raise my fingers to say thanks in that situation. Not really as a thanks; more of an acknowledgment.

    If someone's given up their right of way to let me through, that's different, and I'll give them a much more obvious thank-you gesture.
  • Stephen_Leak
    Stephen_Leak Posts: 8,762 Forumite
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    edited 15 April 2012 at 11:54PM
    Yes. Always. Regardless of whether or not I have right of way. As has been said, courtesy costs nothing.

    If you really want some fun and the other driver is the opposite gender, try blowing them a kiss.
    The acquisition of wealth is no longer the driving force in my life. :)
  • TrickyWicky
    TrickyWicky Posts: 4,025 Forumite
    Round these parts few people can be bothered but when they do they usually just lift their fingers off the steering wheel at you rather than lift their hand and give a partial wave. Still I suppose something is better than almost nothing :D
  • datostar
    datostar Posts: 1,288 Forumite
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    Yes. Always. Regardless of whether or not I have right of way. As has been said, courtesy costs nothing.

    If you really want some fun and the other driver is the opposite gender, try blowing them a kiss.

    It might be even more interesting if the other driver was the same gender!
  • NBLondon
    NBLondon Posts: 5,712 Forumite
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    Round these parts few people can be bothered but when they do they usually just lift their fingers off the steering wheel at you rather than lift their hand and give a partial wave. Still I suppose something is better than almost nothing :D
    Maybe it's just me but I find that version irritating - it comes across as a sort of supercilious flicking away "Well done for getting out of my way you pleb" gesture. Same goes for the hand out of the window at 30 degrees below the horizontal.

    If I'm going to wave, I'll lift my hand to shoulder height like a stereotypical Red Indian saying "How" or if the window is open, hold out a "thumbs up".

    I was once let out of a side-turning in the morning rush hour by a mum on the school run (a surprise in itself) then had to look back to check I'd seen what I thought I had... the hand she'd waved me on with was inside Sooty :)
    I need to think of something new here...
  • Strider590
    Strider590 Posts: 11,874 Forumite
    I always give a little wave of thanks, or if I can't release the wheel and they end up behind me, I give them a single flash of the hazard lights as soon as i've got into position.

    With cars coming the opposite way as mentioned in the OP, I wave only to thank them for not being complete idiots.
    “I may not agree with you, but I will defend to the death your right to make an a** of yourself.”

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  • dibuzz
    dibuzz Posts: 2,021 Forumite
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    I always thank people and like another poster I find it seems to be older men who are completely ignorant.
    I also let people out of side roads, a few seconds doesn't really make much difference to my journey.
    If my son holds a door open for someone and they just sail through without even looking at him he says "you're welcome" loudly.
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