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  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    Oh, ((((hugs)))) for you today.
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • PigginSkint
    PigginSkint Posts: 2,706 Forumite
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    Thanks Hypno and Bubbles.

    I spoke to him again on the phone a little while ago (when I had calmed down!) and said that we needed to have a serious talk later. Although I didn't intend to we ended up doing most of it over the phone - DS will be at home tonight so our opportunities to talk will be limited. I told him a lot of things that I have not said before - for example, that I am worried for the future of our relationship if this doesn't get sorted and also that he is making me really unhappy (not just that this situation is making me unhappy).

    Anyway, I think he got the message and we have agreed to talk more later.
    PigginSkint's debt free diary
    DFW Nerd 1049 Amazon Sellers Club member 54
    Total mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £14090.77 (Last payment: September 2021)
    LTSB Loan 30/4/17 £6633.71 (reduction by 48%)
    Total credit cards: 30/4/17 £25971.91 :eek:
    Total non-mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £32876.49 :eek:
  • Hey Piggin,

    Sorry to hear about the maths test.

    I really hope for your sake that he listens, takes it on board and actually does something about it this time.

    Good luck.
    Debt Now~Total-£14,366.72~CC-£1,600.00~Sofa-£1,349.01~Loan-£11,417.71
    :eek:Debt@Oct 12~Total £15,674.60~CC-£1,636.40~Sofa-£1,648.77~Loan-£12,389.43:eek:
  • PigginSkint
    PigginSkint Posts: 2,706 Forumite
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    Hey Piggin,

    Sorry to hear about the maths test.

    I really hope for your sake that he listens, takes it on board and actually does something about it this time.

    Good luck.

    Thanks - I hope so too!

    I think he might have taken on board what I said because he has just phoned me to ask me what I wanted for dinner. When I expressed surprise at him volunteering to cook he said it was to say sorry. So I am feeling a little more positive now - that he has realised that there is something that needs to apologise for!
    PigginSkint's debt free diary
    DFW Nerd 1049 Amazon Sellers Club member 54
    Total mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £14090.77 (Last payment: September 2021)
    LTSB Loan 30/4/17 £6633.71 (reduction by 48%)
    Total credit cards: 30/4/17 £25971.91 :eek:
    Total non-mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £32876.49 :eek:
  • dawnybabes
    dawnybabes Posts: 3,341 Forumite
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    Aww Piggin (((Hugs)))

    Hope you've had a good talk and cleared the air (after all making up is still free !!)
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  • PigginSkint
    PigginSkint Posts: 2,706 Forumite
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    dawnybabes wrote: »
    Aww Piggin (((Hugs)))

    Hope you've had a good talk and cleared the air (after all making up is still free !!)

    Hi dawnybabes. Thanks!

    Yes we have had a good talk and things seem a lot more positive now - I came home yesterday to a tidy living room and had my dinner made for me.

    Let's hope it continues.

    I am sat here at the moment with Amazon open in a separate window listing loads of books for sale - 1 box down, only 4 to go! I am just going to have a short break and have a soak in the bath - got very hot and sweaty going into town this morning!

    Back in a bit!
    PigginSkint's debt free diary
    DFW Nerd 1049 Amazon Sellers Club member 54
    Total mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £14090.77 (Last payment: September 2021)
    LTSB Loan 30/4/17 £6633.71 (reduction by 48%)
    Total credit cards: 30/4/17 £25971.91 :eek:
    Total non-mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £32876.49 :eek:
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    Thats a good amount of amazon listing - loadsa money!!

    Thank you for the ink cartridge - it wouldn't fit through the letterbox so I had to go to the post office to collect it, hence the delay in saying thank you, because I kept forgetting to go and pick it up!!!
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • PigginSkint
    PigginSkint Posts: 2,706 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    hypno06 wrote: »
    Thats a good amount of amazon listing - loadsa money!!

    Thank you for the ink cartridge - it wouldn't fit through the letterbox so I had to go to the post office to collect it, hence the delay in saying thank you, because I kept forgetting to go and pick it up!!!

    No probs - glad to help! Sorry you had to go to the hassle of going to fetch it.
    PigginSkint's debt free diary
    DFW Nerd 1049 Amazon Sellers Club member 54
    Total mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £14090.77 (Last payment: September 2021)
    LTSB Loan 30/4/17 £6633.71 (reduction by 48%)
    Total credit cards: 30/4/17 £25971.91 :eek:
    Total non-mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £32876.49 :eek:
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    Oh no hassle at all!! We pass the post office all the time, but I just kept forgetting to pick up the ticket thing that was pushed through the door!
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • PigginSkint
    PigginSkint Posts: 2,706 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    hypno06 wrote: »
    Oh no hassle at all!! We pass the post office all the time, but I just kept forgetting to pick up the ticket thing that was pushed through the door!

    That's O.K. then!

    The opening hours at yours must be a bit more convenient than the one near us - it's a complete pain in the neck if we have to go and get anything.
    PigginSkint's debt free diary
    DFW Nerd 1049 Amazon Sellers Club member 54
    Total mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £14090.77 (Last payment: September 2021)
    LTSB Loan 30/4/17 £6633.71 (reduction by 48%)
    Total credit cards: 30/4/17 £25971.91 :eek:
    Total non-mortgage debt: 30/4/17 £32876.49 :eek:
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