Hola from Mola - the thread killer is back!

In_Search_Of_Me

Thank god it was a joke is all I can say!! Well done on debt busting! Youre doing amazingly well!

Molanole

Egg Loan overpayment has now cleared and so here are the final results from the Molanole panel for April.

Egg Loan: £5,871.82
HSBC Loan: £4,421.78
M&S Card: £1,818,61

TOTAL: £12,112.21

Warning - RANT ALERT

I'm only posting this to get this out of my mind (like one of those letters you should write and then tear up) so that I can do some work otherwise it'll eat me up all day.

I am sooooooo tantalisingly close to the under 11K mark. Trouble is, after a huge barney with the MIL2B this morning I've reached the end of my tether. So, I'm arranging viewings for a flat over the next couple of days as I'm off work. I think we've all reached the point of no return now so I shall be moving back to London and (god forbid) carting her darling son (who is still 6 years old in her eyes, not 30) with me. Then I shall invest in caller display so that I never have to answer the phone to her again. Evil, I know, but entirely necessary.

So, there goes overpayments to the egg loan until the wedding is done. And the saving a house deposit next year dream goes too as it'll have to be replaced by a paying off the debts dream. And what little wedding savings we had will dissappear as they'll have to be used as a deposit.

I think I'm making the right decision though. At least, I hope so. I'd always told myself that I wouldn't ever shout at MIL2B but this morning she pushed me too far to ignore it. I'm sick of gritting my teeth while they talk at me. I'm sick of having to justify where I'm going - I was grilled about going to library on Saturday can you believe it! I'm sick of hearing about how broke they are (I'm getting the distinct impression that she's wanting me to bail her out) and I'm sick of the way she makes my fiance feel so guilty about everything. So, we're moving.

I'll still be a DFW though it just mucks up my timings a bit

elantan

sounds like youve had an eventful time to me mol....i had similar issues with my mil ..we now barely talk to each other... if you cant live there your better off just moving i know you want to clear the debt but you can only take so much

Molanole

Hi El.

Eventful yes, I just want a bit of peace and some space to be honest! It'll be a shame that I can't clear a bit more, and I'm a bit scared about what happens when I get made redundant but it really is the best thing.

At least I've managed to pay off another £9,300 since being at the inlaws so it's not all been entirely worthless!

How's you anyway hun? I've not been able to catch up with your posts for a while! :embarasse

elantan

i havent been on much lately to be honest have been working etc etc ...trying to get me a new job too (i think it's in the air) ...not long to go now till your wedding you will ofcourse need to post the pics ...please tell me you will

Molanole

I'll definitely still be here El. Looks like end 2009 for debt freedon for me now, rather than end 2008 as I'd hoped so will get a few photos up no doubt (although I might chop the heads off, or perhaps give myself the face of Claudia Schiffer or someone, cos I'm a bit nervy of everyone knowing what I look like).

In_Search_Of_Me

oh dear! Youve done your best & as you say enough is enough! Time to move on & be freee!! If not debt free but money isnt everything, sanity, less travel time etc will all be positve changes leading up to the big day....

Seaxwyn

hi Mola

Poor you, that's really frustrating, but there are other things in life besides paying debts, and having a quiet life away from people who wind you up is important too.

I hope all goes well with the move and you enjoy having your own space.

rog2

Happy Birthday to you
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Happy Birthday dear Moley
Happy Birthday to you!!

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Sea78

Hope you have a WONDERFUL day honey

Sea xxxx