Am I childish/confused/paranoid?

doodoot

From a woman's point of view, I reckon that she's backed off.

If she's as active on FB as you say she is yet all you get is one or two word texts, then that shows she is backing away and isn't as interested as she previously was?

Either way, you aren't going to find out by asking people on a forum...give her a call, NOT a text.

missmontana

LisaB85 wrote: »

The other option is to not text her at all and see if she contacts you.

I'd say this ^^ how many times have you text and not had a reply? That in itself can be rather annoying!

Stop checking her FB every 5 minutes, go out and do stuff yourself, with your mates, will take your mind off it all and give you something to post about!

pinkshoes

Text: "Hi. Have I done something to upset you, as you seem a bit quiet recently? Apologies if I have! Hope to see you soon, x"

If she doesn't reply, then I guess she's changed her mind, so perhaps just move on.

ShAnE

missmontana wrote: »

I'd say this ^^ how many times have you text and not had a reply? That in itself can be rather annoying!

Stop checking her FB every 5 minutes, go out and do stuff yourself, with your mates, will take your mind off it all and give you something to post about!

I text her once on Thursday, she replied and mentioned she was at her sisters.
I text her first on Friday, just saying good morning (as my flowers had been delivered, but I had not heard anything), and she replied saying she had survived babysitting duties, spent the night and was gonna stay for the weekend.

So I don't believe i'm being clingy, it's just nice in my opinion to have communication with the person you're seeing.

I think I might just give pinkshoes advice a go this evening, and just go from there.

Slinky

ShAnE wrote: »

I text her once on Thursday, she replied and mentioned she was at her sisters.
I text her first on Friday, just saying good morning (as my flowers had been delivered, but I had not heard anything), and she replied saying she had survived babysitting duties, spent the night and was gonna stay for the weekend.

These don't sound like one or two word answers to me........

purple.sarah

Don't let your insecurity push her away. If she's limiting her answers to your texts then back off a bit and give her some space while she's at her sisters then casually see how she is when she gets back. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Don't obsess about it or check up on her on facebook.

Mupette

would she of been expecting you to get down on one knee at valentines? and miffed because you didn't?

TheEffect

Maybe stop texting and start calling?

I'm 21, but despite the stigma attached to younger members of society constantly texting, sometimes it's nice to pick up the phone and talk!

londonsurrey

It could be that time of month, or she was expecting you to jump her bones on Valentine's Day, she does sound moody. Best way forward is as others have said, just ask her, and not via text.

Peater

She's a woman. It could be one of a million reasons.

Sit tight.