Tesco 11+ support group for incurable gasbags and addicted bargain hunters!

Westvleteren

HappyChappy84 wrote: »

I had to delete the bit saying feel free to copy any pics. Sis has had a right go at me about it saying photographers should never give away their work. Please refrain from the copying the pics.

Not that there is much worth copying but I would still like some control. Not all the photos are mine.

frequent

mymerrywidow wrote: »

is everyone still flash mobbing mr t at 8?

what and miss CL football no way

a n other site from comfort of behind sofa

frequent

mymerrywidow wrote: »

ok , any electricians out there? i am getting a new electric cooker and i wired my old in 14 years ago but i seem to have forgotton how to wire it in again. is it just the same as a plug? i dont want to pull the old cooker out just to find out then shove it back in again,as i doubt i will get it back in hole:o

No its not.

Think the thickness of old cooker cable needs to be checked as new models run at higher amps.

Also the cooker socket maybe well out of date.

Really think you should double check.

tweets

neosi wrote: »

Found this lonely post on the old thread



Here ya go.....



Please share with everyone though, especially lookinforabargain as i teased her the other day about not having any choc...

Awe thank you. I will go and find my vase and wash it. It's probably got spiders living in it then put the roses in it. Then i will sit here and eat the chocolate

Lookingforabargain will share the choc with you.

Anyone else want a piece ? Roses all mine

ChelseaGirl

caz2703 wrote: »

Apologies to anyone I've been a bit sharp with today - you know who you are.

And to those who have bared their souls on screen, thank you. I had no idea that failed marriages were so common. It never even crossed my mind that I would encounter so many people in similar situations to me.

I admire those who have managed to hold their marriage together. Marriage is hard, any relationship is hard but it takes two. I'm ashamed that I allowed myself to be blinded by love and used for so many years. I'm financially ruined, emotionally drained, tired from not sleeping because of stress, worried as to where I'll live but I have the 2 most fantastic kids I could ever have hoped for.

I don't know what the next few weeks will hold but no doubt it will be the same as the last few months - dreading the post coming in case it's another legal letter, dreading the weekend and wondering what the ex is going to ask next, jumping when my phone beeps in case it's another harassing text. I feel so much stronger than I did this time last year but it doesn't stop the hurt or the humiliation. Some day I will emulate a lot of you lovely girls and find the perfect partner second time around.

I've had some really lovely PMs from people on here and not just today. It's so hard when all your friends seem to have the perfect little family - husband, cute kids, holidays etc. All I want is for my kids to be happy & healthy but no-one gets that though I've made the right decision, it doesn't erase the past nor is it something that you can move on from quickly.

I've quoted your entire post because I'm sitting here with my mouth open in absolute amazement. I can relate to every single word you've posted above. Everything from not sleeping because of the stress, to dreading the post arriving, my heart sinking when my phone beeps with a new text message and when my email notifier appears on my screen to say a new email has arrived at the email address he uses to email me to harrass and bully me.

Are you sure we're not married to the same person? We could get him for bigamy!:rotfl:

Seriously in your post you've put everything I've wanted to say, everything I feel and wanted to share, but in a much more concise, descriptive way.

I think you're doing a great job. You did do the right thing. You don't need me to tell you that though. We're both going to get through this somehow. xx

Thrifty_Sister

MKS wrote: »

Thrifty - size is not important!:o

Who says:D:D

caz2703

Would you lot stop making me cry I usually leave the tears until the kids are in bed as DS1 gets confused and upset when he sees me crying.

Wool27

caz2703 wrote: »

Would you lot stop making me cry I usually leave the tears until the kids are in bed as DS1 gets confused and upset when he sees me crying.

If nothing else, at least you know you are not alone. Dont be scared to share and unburden yourself, you might even be helping someone else in a similar situation that hasnt quite got over the damage caused and needs words of encouragement;)

frequent

Wool27 wrote: »

If nothing else, at least you know you are not alone. Dont be scared to share and unburden yourself, you might even be helping someone else in a similar situation that hasnt quite got over the damage caused and needs words of encouragement;)

or is still going through...

damo5134

Tinyshoes wrote: »

Hi,

Near the top of the page there is and option for User CP if you click on that and under the Settings and Options section click on Edit Options it is one of the settings in there quite far down the page. HTHs

Thankyou Tinyshoes. I have been trying to figure out for ages how to change my settings!