divorcing but I love him...........

daska

What a rat! He sounds despicable. And you'll probably find he's anxious for a reconciliation now that the GF has kicked him into touch. The solicitor can advise on how to stop him coming to the house if it continues to be a problem.

victory

cloverfan wrote: »

Thank you everyone. He has been seeing the children almost daily at my house, staying 3 or 4 nights a week. He has been on holiday with us.

Everytime we had any falling out and divorce was mentioned he said if I did that he wouldnt see our children. I have now been for the first appointment with the solicitor. I feel such a fool.

He also lied to his gf telling her we were divorced and I had a new man who wouldnt let him see the children hence why she couldnt meet them. It all came out as I got a new job and a lady there seemed really nice and was very friendly always asking me questions about him and the kids, turns out she recognised him when he dropped me off as she is really good friends with his gf. I believe the gf no longer wants anything to do with him..........but this is what he says so who knows if its true or not!!

I have asked him not to come to the house and that I will drop the children off at his house but he keeps turning up anyway.

Thank you for not judging me. x

Wow that was a coincidence, I bet he rules the day you got that new job;)

cloverfan

victory wrote: »

Wow that was a coincidence, I bet he rules the day you got that new job;)

I bet he does!!

victory

It is no consolation to you whatsoevr now because it went on for so long undetected but in the future one way or another you will be glad you took that job, you met that lady, she knew your husband and made it all come out so that day when you look back , happy, settled and remarried,you can think, thank God I found out and it never went on for even more years ,wasting my life waiting:D

Hanging_by_a_thread

One tiny bit of advice, tweak your signature to state 'determined to make a better life for me and my children'. You all deserve to be happy and to have a great future. Things can only get better

MrsE_2

victory wrote: »

It is no consolation to you whatsoevr now because it went on for so long undetected but in the future one way or another you will be glad you took that job, you met that lady, she knew your husband and made it all come out so that day when you look back , happy, settled and remarried,you can think, thank God I found out and it never went on for even more years ,wasting my life waiting:D

I seperated from my husband in May, found out in August that he was seeing his friends wife & had been for at least a month - so didn't hang about long.

He had wanted to sort himselve out & come home, until he met his lady friend.

Its only half a year on, but I KNOW it was def for the best & I'm TRUELY happier than I have been in a long time.

VestanPance

My ex wife was unfaithful to me and we ended up divorcing over it. After some time she wanted to try again saying she'd made the biggest mistake of her life, but I could no longer trust her and thus it was over even though I was still madly in love with her.

Three years later and in truth I still love her, but could never be with her again. I decided to go it alone from that point.

ladycaz

a friends marriage is over her husband has moved out and she has no money ,no job and lives hunders of miles from her family he has payed the rent for the next two weeks and bills up till then but said as he need rent ect for new place will not help after that he want nothing from the house and she now need to find a way to move her furniture back home her family are unable to help with the cost she is making herself sick with all the worry