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  • Shiloe
    Shiloe Posts: 314 Forumite
    Strapped wrote: »
    Because the buyer is obviously sure. Unless they are pulling a fast one themselves.

    Clearly not ... quick question are you in fact my seller ? You seem to be very on side with them even after the abuse that they gave out im the victim in this (plus the person the present was intended for as they now have something different) therefore I'm technically 'doubly' out of pocket no refund and had to rebuy item elsewhere
  • Strapped
    Strapped Posts: 8,158 Forumite
    Shiloe wrote: »
    Clearly not ... quick question are you in fact my seller ? You seem to be very on side with them even after the abuse that they gave out im the victim in this (plus the person the present was intended for as they now have something different) therefore I'm technically 'doubly' out of pocket no refund and had to rebuy item elsewhere

    :rotfl:Where have I said that I agree with the seller? For the avoidance of doubt, I do not.

    You do, however, seem unable to separate your actions, and responsibility for them, with those of the seller. He has wronged you, so you will wrong him back.

    Anyway, as I posted earlier, it doesn't matter a whole heap in the grand scheme of things, as he'll still claim his money from Royal Mail eventually, although it may of course cause them more work. If you're comfortable with that, then good for you.
    They deem him their worst enemy who tells them the truth. -- Plato
  • soolin
    soolin Posts: 74,407 Ambassador
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    Strapped wrote: »
    :rotfl:Where have I said that I agree with the seller? For the avoidance of doubt, I do not.

    You do, however, seem unable to separate your actions, and responsibility for them, with those of the seller. He has wronged you, so you will wrong him back.

    Anyway, as I posted earlier, it doesn't matter a whole heap in the grand scheme of things, as he'll still claim his money from Royal Mail eventually, although it may of course cause them more work. If you're comfortable with that, then good for you.

    It is virtually impossible to recover your losses from Royal Mail if buyer declines to agree item is missing.
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  • Strapped
    Strapped Posts: 8,158 Forumite
    soolin wrote: »
    It is virtually impossible to recover your losses from Royal Mail if buyer declines to agree item is missing.

    All the more reason not to be a twit oneself then.
    They deem him their worst enemy who tells them the truth. -- Plato
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