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Moving in with family. Few Questions (Sorry it's long)

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  • Thank you for all the replies and yes pp your right :o it does sorry I couldnt see it :o
  • cosmic-dust
    cosmic-dust Posts: 2,618 Forumite
    The only thing that I can see that will change will be your mothers' council tax benefit and as such you should at least pay her board to cover this.
    I made a mistake once, believeing people on the internet were my virtual friends. It won't be a mistake that I make again!
  • cosmic-dust
    cosmic-dust Posts: 2,618 Forumite
    She wants me to move in to help her with things she cant do
    As she get's DLA are you able to claim carers allowance, as you are looking after her?
    I made a mistake once, believeing people on the internet were my virtual friends. It won't be a mistake that I make again!
  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    Your mother will probably lose her 25% discount, so it would be only right to pay her this at least on top of your contributions to gas elec, water etc.
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • pmlindyloo
    pmlindyloo Posts: 13,100 Forumite
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    Here's the link to see if you are eligible for Carer's Allowance:

    http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/CaringForSomeone/MoneyMatters/CarersAllowance/index.htm
  • Thank you I dont want Carers allowence I wont be doing alot more than I already do :) Thank you again for all your help
  • Tarzan
    Tarzan Posts: 53 Forumite

    No i will be feeding myself and my children seperate (she has meals on wheels etc) I ment I wont be paying her rent (board as she calls it) sorry I should have said that I dont expect her to "keep" me. She wants me to move in to help her with things she cant do

    Like make a home cooked meal?
  • Thank you I dont want Carers allowence I wont be doing alot more than I already do :) Thank you again for all your help

    To OP:
    Hope it all works out for you!
    “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning,
    but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”
    -Maria Robinson
  • Tarzan wrote: »
    Like make a home cooked meal?

    For me and my kids and my sister not her she wouldnt stop meals that are delivered now she likes the set routine and knowing the exact time/meal etc x
  • If your Mother is claiming any rate DLA CARE then there will be no non-dependent deduction for Housing and Council Tax Benefit. For a full benefits check/what if calculation go to your local CAB.
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