How do you forget?

victory

skull if he is suffering from depression he needs professional help, make sure he gets it, for him to be able ot talk to someone that is his decision to make but you cannot be there for him in that way because he needs like I said professional help, it will make him feel better and more settled within himself.

As for texting other girls that is hardly the behaviour of a loving and devoted BF to you is it?

If you have given all you can then he is abusing your good nature, you either ask him direct are you now a couple again and see what he says or tell him that you cannot have an on off not sure what is happening relationship and deserve more, if he cannot give more leave it alone.

skullncrossbones

Thank you all for your responses. Sorry it's taken me a while to respond.

So yesterday I told him I can no longer talk or see him. It all hit the fan on saturday night, when all our friends were out for my birthday. Two of my friends couldn't handle his strops anymore and told him how it was. I went after my friend who told me my ex is lying to me, he's been sleeping with girls all the time he's been friendly with me. My friend said he can't sit back anymore and see me getting hurt. So long story short went back to a friends and fell asleep.

Woke up yesterday morning and asked him about the girl he's apparantly slept with recently and he admitted it. I told him that I can't talk to him anymore as it upsets me too much. He made a point that he had been nothing but honest to me. Which I later found out he hadn't. So I left and told him that this isn't forever, but I can't talk to you til I'm ready. I need to concentrate on me and my friends for now.

So off I go to a friends, who is one of his too, and she then tells me that he's been telling her about all the girls he's slept with, many of whom I asked him is anything going on with you two? And he always answered no. Just more lies, more rubbish.

I'm not willing to put up with any of it anymore, the one thing I hate more then anything is liars. He's immature, a total who*e and disgusts me that I fell for his lies. We had a 4 month break of not talking last year and that helped...but this time I won't be letting him back in til I'm over him and free from his bull. Thank you for your replies, definately made me realise I'm worth more.

victory

You absolutely deserve more yes you do

Lotus-eater

skullncrossbones wrote: »

but this time I won't be letting him back in til I'm over him and free from his bull.

And you're planning on letting him back for what reason?

Why on earth would you ever want to speak to him again?

ada1988

Time will make the past just past.
you need a new life for your own.

Sambucus_Nigra

Lotus-eater wrote: »

And you're planning on letting him back for what reason?

Why on earth would you ever want to speak to him again?

This.

Read the signs - he just isn't into you - he is sh@gging about - he has no respect...why would you even contemplate letting him back.

skullncrossbones

You're right I shouldn't, but hard as we have a lot of the same friends who I am not willing to lose.

He txt me last night at stupid o'clock saying he thought I wanted time away from everything but he keeps seeing my comments on friends statuses n such.

Shall I just ignore the txt or tell him outright I wanted time away from you?

Lotus-eater

Tell him to leave you alone and not contact you again. Anything else and you leave yourself open to further heartbreak. Your choice.

Sambucus_Nigra

skullncrossbones wrote: »

You're right I shouldn't, but hard as we have a lot of the same friends who I am not willing to lose.

He txt me last night at stupid o'clock saying he thought I wanted time away from everything but he keeps seeing my comments on friends statuses n such.

Shall I just ignore the txt or tell him outright I wanted time away from you?

Block him on facebook and he won't be able to see them.

What the !!!! has it got to do with him what you do or don't do on facebook?

I'd tell him to !!!! off personally; but you do what you want to...

VfM4meplse

You have a good heart and your ex- knows that, and he can't resist abusing it.

Time to go cold turkey and block him out completely. In time you will forget about him, and meet someone who treats you with the respect you deserve, at which point you'll look back and think "what a plonker..." (him not you).