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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11

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  • evilsquid1603
    evilsquid1603 Posts: 1,399 Forumite
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    edited 10 April 2012 at 11:31AM
    one more for me please!

    lala1974, i completely understand what you mean about going out and remembering what happened. by other peoples accounts, my wedding night was an epic night, all i remember is getting VERY drunk, matching the boys' drinks with free poured JD and coke (they stopped counting at 30 drinks, and they said they had to change the back bar JD bottle for me :eek:) and trying to convince the New York ambulance service i didn't have alcohol poisoning and didn't want to go to hospital whilst sitting on our hotel bathroom floor muttering about health insurance and the NHS being completely awesome!

    [edit: should prob also add the ambulance arrived after DH admitted he spent 30 mins dialling 999 and getting nowhere and shouting at the phone for not working. think the hotel switchboard twigged what he was trying to do lol]

    did you see in the news last summer that some guys in America had single handedly caught some on the run murderers? we met them in the bar we were in because they'd been in NY to go on the Today show. apparently my mother in law got drunker than i did and started flirting with them and my DH nearly started a fight with a murder-catching real american cowboy for coming onto his mother. and i cant remember a thing of it! :mad:
  • mackeroo
    mackeroo Posts: 806 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear about your loss Mari and i think its amazing that despite all whats gone on for you in the last few weeks, you are motivated to make some changes, well done you x

    Lala ~ thanks for sharing your story and what a story it is. I love reading about people's achievements. Huge congrats x
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  • missrlr
    missrlr Posts: 2,192 Forumite
    Managed another AF night here so up to 6 - pleased with the result over the weekend, had a lovely bottle of wine with friend over lunch and then only 1 glass of wine with dinner and port with cheese when with parental types so all better there. Also even though did not drive I still didn't drink last night. All good. Have I managed to get a handle on this one? Am I jinxing myself - probably but if I can state here I can do this then perhaps I make resolution stronger.
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  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    Afternoon all

    6 please Shaggy

    Rachelww - things probably seem very hard at the moment, especially having to sort through your mums things. Many ((hugs))

    Mari - so sorry to hear about your Dad. Many ((hugs)) to you too.

    lala - well done you !!!:TYou are in a place I aspire to be. What you say about being able to think more clearly and be more upbeat - THATS what I need (and am trying to get!).

    Well.....things are achanging in the piggy house :D After several years of refusing to have pets, OH has finally given in to mine and Piglets pestering....and we are getting a house rabbit on Friday!!!:rotfl::T And also, after the dramas with the Swan Egg (which Piglet got rather attached to) Dad is bringing round today an incubator and some chicken eggs....so we will be having little chicks soon too!!!:T OH thinks we've all gone mad!!:D I think its all rather exciting myself!:)

    Miss P
    xx
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  • mrsrainman
    mrsrainman Posts: 304 Forumite
    Sending you massive hugs Mari

    Lala - Well done!! So inspirational. I hope your story helps others just starting theirs.

    MissP - Good luck!! MrR and I were saying earlier about taking BabyR to see the animals at Studley Grange. I think we might just come round to see you instead!! :rotfl:

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  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Just nipping in to say Hello to you all.
    Hugs to everyone that needs them and congratulations to those keeping up the good work on here.

    I passed my 4 years AF anniversary 3 days ago and didnt even notice until today :D

    It just goes to show that this thread and the people on it saved my life, my marriage and my sanity and I would like to thank you all.

    Keep on giving up/ cutting down folks. If I can do it so can you.

    Remember..............

    Take Care of YOU

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  • shaggydoo
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    Morning :hello:

    1 more AFD for me.

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    Have a happy one!

    Shaggyx
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  • shaggydoo
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    Mari so sorry to read about your Dad :(

    You're on the list.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 11 April 2012 at 7:30AM
    lala1974 wrote: »

    See my Signature...

    I've done it!!

    In the last 12 months I have been AF

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    Great News!!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    Miss P enjoy smiley%20bunny.gif and chicken4.gif
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
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