Sometimes you just can't win!!

victory

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DUTR

Nope, the ups and downs of relationships, it balances out with the good though , enjoy

Emmzi

no, so stop trying.

victory

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Sambucus_Nigra

Go. Or don't go. You decide.

It's that simple.

victory

Sambucus_Nigra wrote: »

Go. Or don't go. You decide.

It's that simple.

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junior_j

In my experience with my mum and dad , my dad only wanted mum to go some where she didnt want to go but he did so he would feel less guilty! It has led to many arguments more so when she has gone.

Do not go some where , where you will be unhappy and uncomfterable. Things like this is where you do what you have done and say

" I do not want to go to this at all , no way will you change my mind , but if you want to go I wont get in your way" If he gets shi!tty there is nothing you can do put continue you as normal

victory

junior_j wrote: »

" I do not want to go to this at all , no way will you change my mind , but if you want to go I wont get in your way" If he gets shi!tty there is nothing you can do put continue you as normal

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onlyroz

It can be embarrassing and slightly humiliating if you find yourself always going to parties and events on your own when you're in a relationship. I've lost count of the times that hubby pulled out of something at the last minute saying "just go and enjoy yourself" only to come home afterwards to find him being a miserable grump because I'd had a good time without him.

karren

my in laws obviously hate me so i refuse to go abroad to visit them, its a longboring story but this life business is NOT a rehersal so live it how you see fit, its not worth the knot of anxiety x

rachbc

my sil didn't used to come to family events due to some 'issues' and it as always embarassing for her OH even though we knew she wouldn't come an why - perhaps its the same for our husband