Cheer Me up, i have just been slated!!

Beetlebug1983

thank you!!

Beetlebug1983

No i wouldn't pay the £29k, i would phone each creditor and ask how much they would settle for! Is that mean?

poppy10_2

Beetlebug1983 wrote:

You never know, i might find a pound on the floor tonight, put it on the lottery

Err, no, you will put it in your savings tin, won't you

steve700

Beetlebug1983 wrote:

No i wouldn't pay the £29k, i would phone each creditor and ask how much they would settle for! Is that mean?

That made me laugh - no comment

tenroom

southernscouser wrote:

I'm sorry but that poster did not have Beetlebugs interests at heart. They decided they would try and belittle someone in front of everyone else to try and feel better about themselves. In my eyes thats bullying and it's bang out of order. Why couldn't they have posted constructively like everyone else?

For the simple reason that, in my opinion, Beetlebug knows FULL WELL that she has no business what . . so . . ever getting a backbreaker mortgage.

Yes, my post was blunt and with hindsight, perhaps a little harsh but I quite simply refused to believe that anyone with an IQ above 40 couldn't see why they shouldn't have a mortgage that weighed in at 5 X their joint income when they've got debts with unsecured creditors at £29K AND bad credit history.

It's not about belittling people, it's about getting the message through.

GreyPilgrim

I think we're all missing the point here. And that point is - 'what do you think of my new avatar"?

Beetlebug1983

there are ways of sending messages. But anyway, it's over with now.

shopaholictiedtheknot

Hi there just sent you a private message (to avoid being slagged off cos I just cant deal with the aggro!!!):D

tenroom

Beetlebug1983 wrote:

No i wouldn't pay the £29k, i would phone each creditor and ask how much they would settle for! Is that mean?

There you go again ! :mad:

This is exactly why I was harsh before. You have no respect whatsoever. I think you borrowed that money in good faith. No one twisted your arm, you just wanted what you wanted and the money was there so you took it. You sound like you actually resent them for wanting you to repay the money you borrowed.

If you're as young as I suspect you are (early - mid 20s), your attitude represents exactly what is wrong with today's celebrity-worshipping, binge-drinking, spend-spend-spend-for-tomorrow-we-die society and is morally reprehensible. As long as you get what you want and what your equally morally bankrupt peers say you should have then that's all that matters . . . F*** the lenders.

If you do get this mortgage, I positively GUARANTEE that you will be repossessed within 3 years.

shopaholictiedtheknot

tenroom wrote:

There you go again ! :mad:

This is exactly why I was harsh before. You have no respect whatsoever. I think you borrowed that money in good faith. No one twisted your arm, you just wanted what you wanted and the money was there so you took it. You sound like you actually resent them for wanting you to repay the money you borrowed.

If you're as young as I suspect you are (early - mid 20s), your attitude represents exactly what is wrong with today's celebrity-worshipping, binge-drinking, spend-spend-spend-for-tomorrow-we-die society and is morally reprehensible. As long as you get what you want and what your equally morally bankrupt peers say you should have then that's all that matters . . . F*** the lenders.

If you do get this mortgage, I positively GUARANTEE that you will be repossessed within 3 years.

Who are you and why are you following Beetlebug round this site - dont you have anything better to do with your time, you have had your say and I think you should go and find someone else to pick on!!