10 months in and 90 left to go ... the reality is starting to kick in :)

taxi73

hate Quidco stopped using them ages ago as used to end up with loads of the stuff not getting paid out and it's amazing that disputes can take ages if ever to get resolved and usually ironically as their yearly payment is due

thanks for thinking of me but I'm not worth it x

elantan

You so bloody are mrs ... You are human and quite frankly what you are going through has got to be the hardest thing there is .... So I'm allowed to think of ya ... Right ... Don't make me come down there and feed you Jaffa cakes


I stopped using quidco as well tbh and I do have a few disputes outstanding so thought this was just some of them settling ... Havn't really got a clue what quidco are up to but the money is not in my account that much I know

elantan

Nearly finished my shift then I'm off for a couple of days , have had one of my overtimes cancelled as well which tbh I am ok about and it will give me a day off between xmas and Hogmanay ... Hubby has works night out tonight, he's not feeling to good and isn't looking forward to going either but we will see how it goes

Going to get some Xmas presents tomorrow as it will be my only chance

taxi73

good that you're nearly finished and have got some time off

NorthernLas

I shall parcel Aloe Vera up and get Mr NL to post to you. I'll let you know when it is in transit

NL x

Shortie

Hiya El, I hope we don't have to pay more now to have the LPG installed, I'll just be glad to be able to get it installed though! Apparently they are now coming Monday morning (but I guess let's see, it's been a farce so far)

And FIL - Mr Shortie spoke to him about it today. Apparently he appologised (or Mr Shortie made that bit up? FIL never apologises for himself) but as I said to Mr Shortie, I'm not after an apology, what's been said in the past has been said - I just want it to stop. so fingers crossed eh?

Have a lovely couple of days off

elantan

NorthernLas wrote: »

I shall parcel Aloe Vera up and get Mr NL to post to you. I'll let you know when it is in transit

NL x

pm me with how much i owe ya mrs

elantan

Shortie wrote: »

Hiya El, I hope we don't have to pay more now to have the LPG installed, I'll just be glad to be able to get it installed though! Apparently they are now coming Monday morning (but I guess let's see, it's been a farce so far)

And FIL - Mr Shortie spoke to him about it today. Apparently he appologised (or Mr Shortie made that bit up? FIL never apologises for himself) but as I said to Mr Shortie, I'm not after an apology, what's been said in the past has been said - I just want it to stop. so fingers crossed eh?

Have a lovely couple of days off

shouldn't fil be apologising to you? is he not man enough to apologise ?

if he starts when they come over have you thought of ways that you want to handle it?

can you tell i am not very much into people being abused in any form lol

i think it was a year ago last April ( not exactly sure of the date tbh) that i told my mother i never wanted to hear from her or speak to her ever again, i havnt changed my mind, i wont change my mind, she doesnt seem to understand this, i spose that is more evidence that she just doesnt know me at all

time comes when you have to get the destructive, negative people out of your life and it doesnt matter who those people are

hope your time with him is peaceful xxxx

elantan

so i got all the xmas shopping that i could done, got son's belts, and plastic cash thing ( you know the big coke bottle.... he wanted a whisky bottle but they are rarer than hens teeth to get) and some face stuff... just got the Aloe plant ( thanks NL) to get and thats him

got mil a housecoat and slippers, fil slippers and a travel wash bag , sons gf soap and glory stuff

managed to get it all for £110 so far, then had to have a drink to settle myself down again lol

i was in boots looking for stuff for sons gf and all i could hear was xmas music, i just wanted to scream, well seen i dont do shopping and dont have time for xmas

skint_spice

elantan wrote: »

time comes when you have to get the destructive, negative people out of your life and it doesnt matter who those people are

So true, I did this with my sister last year and I think my parents think I'll just give in and accept her nonsense but too much over the years has just killed any chance of a relationship.