Never Ending Circles - The proof is in the pudding!

BitterAndTwisted

Angel, you need to be very, very careful. I don't want to alarm you but some controlling people can respond rather "unfavourably" if and when they sense that the worm may be turning. He's got an absolutely
massive amount invested in ensuring the status quo is maintained.

Seek concrete advice from somewhere like Woman's Aid so you can put a plan together to get him out of your life and to keep yourself safe.

RainbowChild_2

BitterandTwisted is right ..... he has been very cautious around me today because he knows he has rattled me. I suspect he knows what is coming next, he's told me he loves me at least 100 times. I will contact woman's aid and I have rang the GP to get in and see him next week one day. He is out in the kitchen cooking tea at the moment.

It's the feeling that you have abandoned all your friends so are alone that hurts. I spoke to my youngest earlier and will be seeing her in the new year she lives almost 200 miles away so I'm pretty torn apart right now.

It's my fault because I am not a confrontational person and he will make out that I am mad and being unreasonable and having another funny turn .

Sambucus_Nigra

But anyone can see that you quite obviously aren't mad, being unreasonable or having another turn. Stay Strong. x

RainbowChild_2

I just wanted to add that I have no problem being on my own. After my marriage failed I successfully held down a full time job while bringing up the girls from being 4 & 5 and tbh am looking forward to being alone again. There is a BIG difference between alone and lonely

paddy's_mum

RainbowChild wrote: »

There is a BIG difference between alone and lonely

This has to be one of the truest things I've ever seen written on here! I just wish more downtrodden women could grasp that it is nothing less than the truth! Good luck.