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  • skint_spice
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    Every crafter would love one of these - if you have space

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  • ohhhhh yummy!!! Hae applied & fingers crossed! I popped over to say that I've just posted a challenge on my diary with sea to do a DLO (double layout) by next week. Does anyone want to join? Ma be nice for you pap to have a distraction and something nice to take your mind off recent worries. I am going to do one of my lovely macey cat who is currently being cremated...off to see if I can find a photo and some inspiration! Pop over to my diary anyone who fancies joining in - hopefully we can all upload them - either with a link here or to UKS?
    Every crafter would love one of these - if you have space

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  • I hope today wasn't too hard for you. Thinking of you xx

    thanks sf... its been ok, i think the thing that got me was coming home and seeig his cage/hutch empty, when it was done out with hay/straw i guessed he may be coming back, you know subconciously... mum cleaned it out today and i know hes gone, next time i will see him...

    work got me down today too which didnt help... everyone left at 2pm as somone is on holiday so had a lot of time to think :rolleyes: i dont know if that was a good/bad thing :o
  • Sea78
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    hugs PAP - take care of yourself tonight.

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  • slowlyfading
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    Thinking can be a good or bad thing, depends on what you're thinking about. You've been really strong lately, hang in there. xx
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  • Gemmzie
    Gemmzie Posts: 14,876 Forumite
    PAP, please don't post less, you're very, very wanted/needed here. You're my DFW buddy, and I'd miss you loads.
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  • System
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    Hiya PAP, have just caught up on what's been happening - sorry for being adrift. Firstly I am sorry to hear about your raabbit. Isn't awful when your pet dies. We have 2 cats and to me (not OH!) they are not just cats they are part of the family. When I was a kid and living at home we used to have a cat (called Beauty) that I tormented and tortured all the time. She hated me. Anyway when I was about 15 (she was aged 17) she was diagnosed with cancer of the throat. And as soon as I found out I changed from being an annoying tormentor to being her best friend. And do you know in all the years that I could remember she wouldn't come anywhere near me and during the last few months of her life it was as if all that had gone between us previously had never happened. I was there when the vet came round to put her down and I literally saw the life drain from her eyes as she died. Anyway, it upset me something chronic so I stuck a written tribute to her surrounded by 4 photos on my bedroom wall that went:

    "To a memory that will be cherished always,
    To a cat that was loved so much...Beauty"

    It may or may not help you to grieve the loss. Lenny
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  • LookingAhead
    LookingAhead Posts: 4,633 Forumite
    Oh gawd lenny....I don't even *like* cats that much and I'm welling up......:cry:


    PAP.....just take things one day...one hour even, at a time and be kind to yourself.

    And remember.....we love you!

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  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    *sob* Lenny - I do love you....

    Sorry about your bunny PAPS. xx
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  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    So sorry to hear about your loss PAP and can totally understand you having him cremated especially with your house being knocked down..take carexx and don't let work put on you too much
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