Starting again, with a positve attitude this time ..

Aesop

HI, congratulations on passing your driving test :j:j:beer:

:mad::mad::mad::mad: to burglars! I have been broken into and burglared and the second time I caught them as they were breaking in, it is not a nice feeling at all. So I know what your are going through.

(((((((((((((((((HI))))))))))))))))

Hiddenidenity

Sorry I was so worked up before I couldnt even type properly

Thank you for the congratulations

To be honest its just made moving away from this area even more likely to happen sooner, I hate the area anyway theres been 7 murders over the smace of a 3 weeks! People stabbed and attacked right outside, II dont want my kids growing up round this. I know it happens everywhere but its just getting "too" close iykwim.. Today is the final straw knowing someones been in bedroom, the kids bedroom etc. Well they've took everything of value, we got the house boarded up and we arent staying there tonight.

Aesop

HI, you are a mother who wants to protect her children and keep them safe.

No way do we blame you for wanting to move them away from the horrors outside their door!

I would love to move from where we live, as I don't like the area either!

so let's ask for your move to come soon!

Hiddenidenity

Didnt sleep well bahh now I'm tired. Me and him were talking until late and I'm begining to wonder if being with him is the right thing ...

jwil

Congratulations on passing your driving test.

Sorry to hear about the burglary. Hope you manage to get out of there soon.

Hope you manage to sort out where you want to be regarding your chap as well.

ani_26

I think we all know the answer to that, including you? You have always had so many doubts? It's a relationship of doubts. In that case, it isn't right for you. Off high horse...................


Sorry to hear about the burglary. :grouphug:

At least that's one thing i have to be thankful for, the area in which i live, and the actual residence, ( i won't call it a home, yet.) Once all the problems are sorted, that is. I was talking to someone yesterday, who said these are the best places, and there's only half a dozen of them. I was never going to turn it down, despite the practical problems. I still count myself fortunate to get this place, whatever. It's just the practicalities of not having enough income

Aesop

Hugs, going through something similiar myself. Hope you can make the right decision.

freebyfifty

:j:j To passing your driving test.


:eek::eek: To being burgled.



You seem to be on a real rollercoaster at the moment. Sending you a ((((hug)))) and wishing you some better luck really soon.

ani_26

Aesop wrote: »

Hugs, going through something similiar myself. Hope you can make the right decision.

No surprises there, either?


It's a hard life out there, being on your own. You just have to weigh up the pros and cons of being unhappy in a relationship or the practitalities of struggling on your own? I'm sure many people stay in relationships for financial reasons, or for the sake of the children, if they were honest. I learned recently, how " rich " my other half is, now. A bitter pill to swallow, but i still wouldn't change anything. Being unhappy in a relationship, isn't for me, whatever the cost. In fact, i've been on my own so long now, i wouldn't change it. How sad is that? Or selfish?

freebyfifty

ani_26 wrote: »

It's a hard life out there, being on your own. You just have to weigh up the pros and cons of being unhappy in a relationship or the practitalities of struggling on your own? I'm sure many people stay in relationships for financial reasons, or for the sake of the children, if they were honest. I learned recently, how " rich " my other half is, now. A bitter pill to swallow, but i still wouldn't change anything. Being unhappy in a relationship, isn't for me, whatever the cost. In fact, i've been on my own so long now, i wouldn't change it. How sad is that? Or selfish?

Ditto what ani said. I have never been happier than I am now, on my own and making my own choices in life without having to answer to anyone else. Don't get me wrong, it's hard but I wouldn't go back.
Making that decision is the hardest bit and I hope you find the strength to do what you want to do and not what you think you should do Another (((((hug))))