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Weekly Flylady Thread 21st November 2011

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  • ajmoney
    ajmoney Posts: 6,469 Forumite
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    Now, am contemplating teaching DS (9 but with needs) a harsh lesson - he is being very defiant about tidying his room or even keeping it clean just now. I'm debating carrying out my threat of taking everything away that is on the floor and seeing if he notices or misses anything. He needs a calm clear environment to stay shall we say calm/happy and maybe shoving his room that way may reinforce this to him. Plus I may find and be able to takeaway the we shouldn't have items....

    ..cuppa whilst I ponder - only have 90 minutes before the school run.

    Moam

    I was normally quite good about keeping my room tidy but went through a CBA phase with it as a teenager, my mum put all my stuff in a bin liner in the middle of the floor...my room never got like that again!

    Need to get flying but CBA, may look at doing the challenges first. I have been up since 4.45 for work so maybe I should allow myself some chill out time.

    Monday - kitchen and dining room
    level one
    Sweep and mop the floor

    Tuesday - Living Room, Hall and Stairs, downstair loo
    Level 1
    Vacuum through the living room, hall and stairs
    Level 3
    Clean the mantel or coffee table, re home things that don’t belong here
    Wipe all the remote controls/phones


    Wednesday – Study or kids rooms – doesn’t apply to you then clean some windows I'm substituting the music room
    Level 2
    Hoover floor
    Level 3
    Wipe computer keyboard and mouse, clean the screen
    Declutter misson:
    Despite the promises decades ago that we were heading for a paperless world it doesn’t seem to have arrived! Today declutter paperwork, from files, intrays, magazines etc. Do you still have the receipts from last Christmas stuffed in a drawer? Leaflets for places you will never visit; recipes you will never make get rid of it all.

    Thursday - Bathroom and Study/Pc Area if you didn’t do it yesterday
    Level 1

    Clean floors in these rooms


    Friday - Master Bedroom and Landing
    Level 1

    Hoover the landing and bedroom
    Level 2
    Dust any pictures/photos
    15 minutes of exercise or meditation, or just pondering
    Level 3
    Clean any shoes or boots which need it
    Finish any outstanding jobs on your lists
    Declutter mission:
    Declutter anything from the landing which needs rehoming. Finish any declutter missions from earlier in the week or add your own declutter mission to inspire others.


    Personal Challenges

    Monday Pollyanna Day
    DONE

    Tuesday Go outside Day
    DONE

    Wednesday Health Check
    ALL DONE

    Thursday Feet glorious Feet
    Feet work so hard and so unloved. Today exercise yours. How high can you lift your toes? Can you lift individual toes? Keeping your feet on the floor try to move your big toes towards each other. Use a spare rolling pin or tennis ball to massage the soles of your feet. Can you pick up small items like beanbags with your feet? Get the kids involved too.
    Treat them to a soak and moisturise (your feet not the kids). Foot treat products make great gifts.


    Friday Keep in Contact
    Phone somebody you haven’t spoken to in ages and make their day. Don’t wait until Christmas to send a card asking how they are, do it in person. For those of you who will struggle with this go and read a bit of a board on here you have never visited. You don’t have to post.


    Preparing for Christmas Challenges

    Monday dates
    ALL DONE

    Tuesday outfits
    ALL DONE

    Wednesday season of goodwill and forgiveness
    ALL DONE

    Thursday Festive Food
    Although stir up Sunday has just passed it’s not too late to make a pudding or a cake. My fantastic pudding recipe can be made just a week in advance. Have you got all the recipes and ingredients you need for any festive dishes? Cake boards and decorations to hand? Chocolate Yule logs are fun for kids and those who love chocolate.


    Friday Festive Drinks
    Have a think about drinks over the festive period. Mulled wine, Bucks Fizz, fruit cocktails, fizzy water and red cordial, prosecco? Try something new. Check any glasses you will need over the festive period are clean and sparkling
    MFW 2025 No. 7 £1931.07/£2700
    MFiT-T7 No. 6 £4214.98/£30,000
  • thanks ladies, he has been warned repeatedly, and its now done !

    Will report the results later...but lots of missing items found and scissors removed again,

    School run time, laters,

    Moam
    Although no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.... life is a WIP.


    Snowball says too far away, working hard to bring it forward.
  • ajmoney
    ajmoney Posts: 6,469 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Does anyone have any first hand knowledge of traditional German Christmas meals? I have looked online but just want to be sure. DH comes from a German background and I would like to honour his traditions and mine on Christmas eve seeing as this is the first Christmas we will have spent completely on our own. I have made a list of the stuff I know I definately need to make plus the extra baking I know he will want. I have a rough meal plan for the Christmas weekend and am going to sit down with DH tonight to see if we can decide when we are going to go visiting.

    Going to try do some advert cleaning as I can't really be bothered.

    Monday - kitchen and dining room
    level one
    Sweep and mop the floor

    Tuesday - Living Room, Hall and Stairs, downstair loo
    Level 1
    Vacuum through the living room, hall and stairs
    Level 3
    Clean the mantel or coffee table, re home things that don’t belong here
    Wipe all the remote controls/phones


    Wednesday – Study or kids rooms – doesn’t apply to you then clean some windows I'm substituting the music room
    Level 2
    Hoover floor
    Level 3
    Wipe computer keyboard and mouse, clean the screen
    Declutter misson:
    Despite the promises decades ago that we were heading for a paperless world it doesn’t seem to have arrived! Today declutter paperwork, from files, intrays, magazines etc. Do you still have the receipts from last Christmas stuffed in a drawer? Leaflets for places you will never visit; recipes you will never make get rid of it all.

    Thursday - Bathroom and Study/Pc Area if you didn’t do it yesterday
    Level 1

    Clean floors in these rooms


    Friday - Master Bedroom and Landing
    Level 1

    Hoover the landing and bedroom
    Level 2
    Dust any pictures/photos
    15 minutes of exercise or meditation, or just pondering
    Level 3
    Clean any shoes or boots which need it
    Finish any outstanding jobs on your lists
    Declutter mission:
    Declutter anything from the landing which needs rehoming. Finish any declutter missions from earlier in the week or add your own declutter mission to inspire others.


    Personal Challenges

    Monday Pollyanna Day
    DONE

    Tuesday Go outside Day
    DONE

    Wednesday Health Check
    ALL DONE

    Thursday Feet glorious Feet
    Feet work so hard and so unloved. Today exercise yours. How high can you lift your toes? Can you lift individual toes? Keeping your feet on the floor try to move your big toes towards each other. Use a spare rolling pin or tennis ball to massage the soles of your feet. Can you pick up small items like beanbags with your feet? Get the kids involved too.
    Treat them to a soak and moisturise (your feet not the kids). Foot treat products make great gifts.


    Friday Keep in Contact
    Phone somebody you haven’t spoken to in ages and make their day. Don’t wait until Christmas to send a card asking how they are, do it in person. For those of you who will struggle with this go and read a bit of a board on here you have never visited. You don’t have to post.


    Preparing for Christmas Challenges

    Monday dates
    ALL DONE

    Tuesday outfits
    ALL DONE

    Wednesday season of goodwill and forgiveness
    ALL DONE

    Thursday Festive Food ALL DONE
    Done what I can so far and will know the rest tonight.


    Friday Festive Drinks ALL DONE
    MFW 2025 No. 7 £1931.07/£2700
    MFiT-T7 No. 6 £4214.98/£30,000
  • roundtuit
    roundtuit Posts: 4,867 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Hello everyone

    Dailies all done and have sorted through a carrier bag of gibble picked up from my bedroom floor.

    xx
    IT ONLY TAKES SMALL DAILY ACTIONS
    FOR MAGIC TO HAPPEN
    Rosemary Ikpeme
    :D
  • ajmoney
    ajmoney Posts: 6,469 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Getting there slowly, meant to be going out with the girls tonight but don't think I will be able to stay awake for long tonight!

    Monday - kitchen and dining room
    level one
    [STRIKE]Sweep and mop the floor[/STRIKE]


    Tuesday - Living Room, Hall and Stairs, downstair loo
    Level 1
    Vacuum through the living room, hall and [STRIKE]stairs[/STRIKE]

    Level 3
    Clean the mantel or coffee table, re home things that don’t belong here
    Wipe all the remote controls/phones


    Wednesday – Study or kids rooms – doesn’t apply to you then clean some windows I'm substituting the music room
    Level 2
    [STRIKE]Hoover floor[/STRIKE]

    Level 3
    Wipe computer keyboard and mouse, clean the screen
    Declutter misson:
    Despite the promises decades ago that we were heading for a paperless world it doesn’t seem to have arrived! Today declutter paperwork, from files, intrays, magazines etc. Do you still have the receipts from last Christmas stuffed in a drawer? Leaflets for places you will never visit; recipes you will never make get rid of it all.

    Thursday - Bathroom and Study/Pc Area if you didn’t do it yesterday
    Level 1

    [STRIKE]Clean floors in these rooms[/STRIKE]


    Friday - Master Bedroom and Landing
    Level 1

    [STRIKE]Hoover the landing and bedroom[/STRIKE]

    Level 2
    [STRIKE]Dust any pictures/photos[/STRIKE]

    15 minutes of exercise or meditation, or just pondering
    Level 3
    Clean any shoes or boots which need it
    Finish any outstanding jobs on your lists
    Declutter mission:
    Declutter anything from the landing which needs rehoming. Finish any declutter missions from earlier in the week or add your own declutter mission to inspire others.

    Personal Challenges

    Monday Pollyanna Day
    DONE

    Tuesday Go outside Day
    DONE

    Wednesday Health Check
    ALL DONE

    Thursday Feet glorious Feet
    Feet work so hard and so unloved. Today exercise yours. How high can you lift your toes? Can you lift individual toes? Keeping your feet on the floor try to move your big toes towards each other. Use a spare rolling pin or tennis ball to massage the soles of your feet. Can you pick up small items like beanbags with your feet? Get the kids involved too.
    Treat them to a soak and moisturise (your feet not the kids). Foot treat products make great gifts.

    Friday Keep in Contact
    Phone somebody you haven’t spoken to in ages and make their day. Don’t wait until Christmas to send a card asking how they are, do it in person. For those of you who will struggle with this go and read a bit of a board on here you have never visited. You don’t have to post.

    Preparing for Christmas Challenges

    Monday dates
    ALL DONE

    Tuesday outfits
    ALL DONE

    Wednesday season of goodwill and forgiveness
    ALL DONE

    Thursday Festive Food
    ALL DONE

    Friday Festive Drinks
    ALL DONE
    MFW 2025 No. 7 £1931.07/£2700
    MFiT-T7 No. 6 £4214.98/£30,000
  • Can't tell you how cold it is here. THat school run was murder. Raining, windy and so cold it may snow me thinks before the weekend is out:mad: plus the dog need to stop to pee every 2 seconds:mad:

    FFP Howd'ya do? Off to strip beds.

    Oh the usual started off well :whistle::whistle: did get the caravan stuff put past so that was 1 big job at least, livingroom is cleared and I'm just gonna finish my room, couple of washings done, decluttered some hot chocolate while watching Harry Potter:o
    Hello All,.

    Now, am contemplating teaching DS (9 but with needs) a harsh lesson - he is being very defiant about tidying his room or even keeping it clean just now. I'm debating carrying out my threat of taking everything away that is on the floor and seeing if he notices or misses anything. He needs a calm clear environment to stay shall we say calm/happy and maybe shoving his room that way may reinforce this to him. Plus I may find and be able to takeaway the we shouldn't have items....



    Moam

    I did this with my boys when they were about 6 and 8. Only I went one step further I binned everything that was on the floor, toys, clothes the lot, and this was in January and the vast majority of it was brand new Christmas stuff. They learned their lesson though as when I ask, with bin bags in hand, if they would like me to tidy their rooms now they go do it straight away.
    I'm not a muggle...I'm just magically challenged
  • Bloomin' cold here too. *goes off to check weather forecast*
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • hex2
    hex2 Posts: 4,736 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    ajmoney - you want Mrs Chaos for the Christmas customs, perhaps PM her?

    Greenbee - didn't have chance to say good luck but I did think of you today.

    I spent all day cleaning and unpacking at work and I am sore. DH spent the day making doors for the first run of cabinets and they are truely lovely. Absolutely delighted. I might even drum up the energy to start clearing the kitchen so that he can get on.
    'If you have a garden and a library, you have everything you need' Marcus Tullius Cicero
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,571 Forumite
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    edited 25 November 2011 at 5:25PM
    what a day!

    done an errand this morning and left the towels on the line - they were almost dry so about half an hour in the TD got them lovely and fluffy. Put bedding out - and resisted bringing it in during slight, short showers so it's virtually dry too - as the day has gone on it's got cold and very windy.
    Made DS's bed. Need DD to clear carp off hers and need to iron my duvet cover before I make mine.
    E bay rating has crept over 98% (am really suffering with the three negs I had) finally!
    Cleaned kitchen and bathroom so getting there.

    Looks like free listaing on e bay AGAIn this weekend!
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • short_bird
    short_bird Posts: 4,065 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    I'm quite surprised at the number of eBay free listing weekends TBH. I don't mind them:D but it's every 2 or 3 weeks now...
    ‘Keep your eye on the donut and not on the hole.’ David Lynch.
    "It’s a beautiful day with golden sunshine and blue skies all the way.” David Lynch.
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