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Saving the Date - what to include?

Hello All,

What wording did you put on your save the date card/magnets?

I'm trying to design my save the date magnets but can't decide on the information to put. Do I need to distinguish between those invited all day and those just for the evening?

Thanks in advance,
Alipops x
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  • johannalf88
    johannalf88 Posts: 2,827 Forumite
    I think usually save the dates are just for the day guests, but each to there own. If you do them for both, definitely make sure the evening guests say evening. Imagine saving the whole day, rearranging a holiday etc, only to find out its just for the evening. N if you think it means the whole day, get excited etc, talk about it, maybe buy an outfit... Then get told its an evening. I would be so embarrassed if it was me! :o
    Hth.
    :T
  • I think you do. You don't want all the people you invite for the evening to not have saved the date! Why don't you try looking up some wedding stationary companies and see if they have any tips on their websites. You could even call them I suppose!
  • mildred1978
    mildred1978 Posts: 3,367 Forumite
    Unless its happening within the next 9 months, I wouldn't advise sending out save the date anything.
    Science adjusts its views based on what's observed.
    Faith is the denial of observation, so that belief can be preserved.
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  • We are only sending them to the day guests and we are only including the date, all the other details will go on the invitations.

    I have only ever received them as a day guest before.

    x
    :EasterBun
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,884 Forumite
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    Unless its happening within the next 9 months, I wouldn't advise sending out save the date anything.

    I have to agree here. What's wrong with just sending the invitation at the appropriate time?
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  • SaLoGo
    SaLoGo Posts: 1,025 Forumite
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    I'm just sending them to the day guests and they say...

    Save the date
    for the wedding of
    S***** & M***
    31st August 2013
    formal invitations to follow
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  • I'm only sending mine to the day guests mine say:
    Save the date
    July 6th, 2013
    To share in the joy of
    bride
    And
    Groom
    As they are married
    At Ceremomy location, town
    Formal invitations to follow.

    I'm sending mine out next Christmas but bought them now as they were on offer.
  • mildred1978
    mildred1978 Posts: 3,367 Forumite
    I have to agree here. What's wrong with just sending the invitation at the appropriate time?

    Won't someone please think of the [STRIKE]tacky magnet industry[/STRIKE] economy??!!
    Science adjusts its views based on what's observed.
    Faith is the denial of observation, so that belief can be preserved.
    :A Tim Minchin :A
  • I have to agree here. What's wrong with just sending the invitation at the appropriate time?

    Some people book holidays in advance so by sending save the dates you are, in effect, prebooking the date since invites are usually sent a few months before the wedding
  • mildred1978
    mildred1978 Posts: 3,367 Forumite
    Some people book holidays in advance so by sending save the dates you are, in effect, prebooking the date since invites are usually sent a few months before the wedding

    My sister works for the Met Police and only has to book her leave 9 months in advance. Most people won't have diaries that cover 2012 yet, never mind 2013!

    People could have 2 babies, emigrate or anything in such a long period of time. I think it's ridiculous, personally.
    Science adjusts its views based on what's observed.
    Faith is the denial of observation, so that belief can be preserved.
    :A Tim Minchin :A
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