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Taxi...from an ugly duckling to a swan

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  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Thanks everyone ..it's so lovely to log on and see so many of you here.

    Well went to see surgeon today and will be having my surgery 25th July.
    I got the distinct feeling that they would've liked to have done it really quickly and he asked where I was going on holiday.When I answered Bulgaria and told him the dates he was working out with the nurse about drains etc etc and then said best do it after holiday then.I think if I'd been holidaying in this country then he'd have done it before I go away as I would have access to hospitals here.So he decided it was definitely safer to do it after coming back.

    It's a little bit more complicated than I thought as due to having had radio therapy previously within that area I may suffer complications eg;infection,slow healing and it may need packing hence the reason for not doing before holiday.As usual I'll just cross each bridge as I come to it and hopefully there won't be too many.
    Plan is to go in at the scar and remove it all and examine and that's all I know at the moment.
    I'm going to try not to worry about(easier said than done) and try to eat healthily, plenty of protein and fruit/veg to help for when healing and I'm definitely going to enjoy my holiday as I'll need some happy thoughts if I need to go through chemo again.

    Thanks everyone for being there,you really don't know how much it means to me and how lovely for some old timers coming on and giving your support xx love you all xx
  • mum2one
    mum2one Posts: 16,279 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    Thats good taht youve got a date, and glad u can get your holiday in 1st, that be the best medicine their is.

    You are the strongest person I know, and what ever gets chucked at you, you have faced with dignity, and wont let it beat you,

    You take care. xxx
    xx rip dad... we had our ups and downs but we’re always be family xx
  • gilligansyle
    gilligansyle Posts: 4,124 Forumite
    Hi, popping out of lurkdom with a ((((hug))) - more that you've had to go through this again and it will be in the back of your mind.

    Take care
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  • dizzy_lizzie
    dizzy_lizzie Posts: 2,952 Forumite
    Taxi you make sure you have a blimming great holiday!
    Then one step at a time and you'll get there.
    Huge soppy hugs.
    Take care
    x
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  • milann
    milann Posts: 11,458 Forumite
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    Enjoy your holiday - go and make some happy memories to think about as you are getting over this new setback. Hugs and positive thoughts xx
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  • Piquant_2
    Piquant_2 Posts: 5,769 Forumite
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    Taxi, you have a great holiday, it's easier said than done, I know, but try and relax and have a good time.

    love Piq
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  • mum2one
    mum2one Posts: 16,279 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    Enjoy the holiday, but no bringing back an toyboys!! xx
    xx rip dad... we had our ups and downs but we’re always be family xx
  • lucielle
    lucielle Posts: 11,550 Forumite
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    Keep strong, we're here if you need us.
    L
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  • urg123
    urg123 Posts: 1,997 Forumite
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    Oh Taxi,
    Just seen the last few days posts. What a brilliant attitude you have. I.m not sure I would cope so well! It sounds like you have a good surgeon. All is crossed for you.

    Urg xxx
  • bast
    bast Posts: 448 Forumite
    Nothing really I can say but (((hugs))) and try to have a good, restful holiday... I know easier said than done... Take care....x
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