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ih8stress

Beki88 wrote: »

Plus I also provide care to my mum so need it for running her about.
As for taxi's well, it used to cost me £12 per day to get DS to school and back thats before trips to hospitals drs shopping etc

Right, I can fully understand why a car would be essential to you then.
Do you get any mobility help for your son and Mum at all e.g. a Mobility car?

Feel free to pm me if you don't want to answer too much on here

ih8stress

Whoops - looks like sunshinestar beat me to it - 'must type faster and not waffle so much'

sunshinestar101

heres a link Beki that you (and others) may find usefull.

http://www.adviceguide.org.uk/index/your_family/education/help_with_school_costs.htm

HappyChappy84

Sunflower1227 wrote: »

Yes please

Sorry, I had to rush out but it's deleted now.

HappyChappy84

Sunflower1227 wrote: »

Thank you

HC just get a bit upset sometimes, sure you will understand

I understand, no problem.

Beki88

sunshinestar101 wrote: »

this isnt really to do with your car - but after this post, i felt i had to come back online and reply.

You sound like you have your work cut out there!! have you looked into carers allowance with regards to your mum? also, have you heard of something called Respite Care? - it could be worth looking into for your son, it will help give you a little break.

sorry for the short message, shattered and baby playing football with my bladder. lol. xx

your doing a great job - im sure you already knew that, but sometimes its just nice to hear.

Thank you hun, made it sound worse as for some reason I put my son a baby and toddler meant to put buggy! Tonight I can't think straight or type a post without having to correct it Sorry.

I get carers allowance for my son but not for my mum as the dr said she was fine so turned down for DLA...same DR who refused to see me today... My son also goes to a group once a fortnight at the moment which I had to fight tooth and nail for as was originally turned down the help!

sunshinestar101 wrote: »

Also - Beki - look into help with travel costs for your son getting to school... some councils offer support. x

Thanks for that I will do

ih8stress wrote: »

Right, I can fully understand why a car would be essential to you then.
Do you get any mobility help for your son and Mum at all e.g. a Mobility car?

Feel free to pm me if you don't want to answer too much on here

My son only gets lower motability which is about 17 ish a week I think? Nothing for my mum, she offers me petrol money bless her but most of the time I don't take it, I can't bare to see her skint, she is a recovering alcoholic and is now just starting to sort herself out money wise and I just can't take it from her!

You know support like this is why I love you guys, oh and the glitches too of course

Winjackie

sunshinestar101 wrote: »

heres a link Beki that you (and others) may find usefull.

http://www.adviceguide.org.uk/index/your_family/education/help_with_school_costs.htm

That's very informative sunshinestar, thank you :T

sharon-p_2

celebrate wrote: »

thanks guys
fed up of blubbering, why would i bl**dy miss such an a$$hole so much
God i must have no self respect at all

yes QPRanger that's the one, i said to him just give them the house and we can all get on with our lives, but he insisted that he would pay their mortgage as long as they needed him to :eek:.....while he can't afford to move me there or get a job closer to us.

Been kicked in the guts like this for too long, stupidly still love him , stupod stupid woman:mad::mad:

Celebrate, just want to add to the support you've had here....you have made the right decision for you and the kids, it may not feel like it at the minute but soon you'll be wondering why you didnt get rid earlier . Now you can devote your time, energy and money to those kids and yourself and ensuring you are all happy instead of worrying about someone who obviously couldnt appreciate exactly what he had. Take your time, you will cry, better out than holding it all in, but you will find that strength and your self respect and confidence will resurface stronger than ever xxx

Beki88

sunshinestar101 wrote: »

heres a link Beki that you (and others) may find usefull.

http://www.adviceguide.org.uk/index/your_family/education/help_with_school_costs.htm

Thank you very much hun, you really are a star :T
Going to go take some pain killers and get to bed I feel drained! Night all x

czerniacha

right, off to bed now... need to wake up quite early to get ready for the interview as I didn't do anything today apart from being with you all day

I'm gonna give my best and hopefully I will be in a very nice position to be able to choose one of two offered jobs...

celebrate please feel free to call my OH if you're desperate for your ex to come back home... he will tell you so much bu11s4it you won't want to talk to a guy for another week or two! :rotfl:

so night night everyone! :A