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Real life MMD: Should I ask my ex for the ring back?
edited 18 October 2011 at 7:27PM in MoneySaving polls
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I don't agree that her behaviour isn't an implied condition of any accepted proposal and handing over of the ring. Now should they both be "swingers" that condition would be open to question. If her behaviour wasn't in keeping, the implied conditions have changed and he was well within his rights to could call it off and get the ring back....
Again i'll reiterate, men are not cash cows emptied at the whim of female privilege..
I'm not sure where you figure i mentioned the act of getting married...
You should also return any engagement gifts.
Problem is who broke of the engagement and why?
Is it a MONEY issue [3K]?
Do you go the whole hog and ask for the clothes/perfume you bought her/him?
The engagement works both ways. BOTH agree to marriage in the future. The ring is a token, a sign to other males to back off.
If either parties break off the wedding then possibly the ring should be given back as expained above.
This was not a GIFT.
It was a token for both parties to marry in future.If not, the ring should be given back.